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Hey. You are trying to have it both ways. You're going to argue it is a legal contract and demand your time, and then say they should perform the hour for business reputation and repeat business. *chuckle* If, as is the case for @westernsyd , the enterprise is legal, and thus the contract may be formed. So, in some counties of Nevada (US), Australia, much of Central and South America, many parts of Europe and scattered other countries, prostitution is legal.

So, you piqued my curiosity and strictly hypothetical. When you form this contract, what's the value of it? Does it exceed the UCC threshold of $500 or are you in a country that opted out of Article 11 of the CISG?

I'm confused on this whole topic. I don't understand the idea of a three fingered selfie. Is it just to verify that the pic matches the person?

There is nothing illegal about renting companionship activity. ;)

Ok. So I'm going to show my naiveté. What should I really expect? I know that they have to promote clothes on dancing. And I hear about wrist bands and costs per song. I am really not sure what to do or what can happen. Is it a stage and theatre type of place? Is it a lounge? Tables? Food? Do the guys just come up to you? Do they invite you into a back room area? Am I allowed to touch, taste, kiss, or is it all them but I have to keep my hands to myself? I've never been to a place like this before, so what can someone share with me, so I can set my reasonable expectations. Thanks. And sorry if my questions are silly or naïve.

bump Getting ready to contact them. Any info?

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If i may ask...where did you/he cam? Which site?

https://rentmen.eu/PlatinumJackAndy

I do not enjoy oral sex with a condom. I don't like the flavor or texture. As a giver, I can suck a dildo for the same flavor. The texture of his cock is ruined by the condom. As a receiver, I miss the various textures of a mouth/throat. And tonguing the condom isn't the same as licking my head. So, while some people may accept it, I do not.

Bump. Certainly looks interesting. Anyone have any info?

Bump for any 411

FWIW - The escort decided to take down his ad completely. :oops:

I acknowledge the point. I've already extended my apologies. Question though, if you hadn't chosen the name "Eric Hassan", but rather "UncutHung9x7inMaine", does that change your assessment?

@Benjamin_Nicholas I expected some of this. It's the stalker and creep comment that got under my skin. I'm over that already. @instudiocity Didn't publish it, as you suggested. That is the type of spiraling I was referring to earlier. Publishing would mean I came in here or elsewhere and publicly spread his personal information.

Nope. I acknowledged my social mistake early in the thread. After that, however, things have been spiraling.

Again, I thinking this is spiraling way out of the reality of the circumstances. You guys are making me out to be some stalker and online creep. I gotta tell you... I'm more than a little surprised. I accept that he may have been startled that I did my research. But not ONCE have I given you any indication of who I am referring to and not ONCE have I discussed the actual personal details. I can recall MANY of the people here advocating that you should use people who you can verify, come well reviewed, etc... But if you're advocating now that clients shouldn't DO that research, then I'm more confused than ever. You can't do due diligence without learning something. Or, I guess, people are advocating that clients should lie and not be honest with the professional they are hiring. Personally, I have ZERO expectation of privacy on this forum or any other online forum. If I give you my personal cell #, then I expect you can tell my name, home address, how long I've lived there, my date of birth, every traffic citation, state license (in every state), the approx. value of my home, how much I pay in taxes, who my friends are on Facebook, Twitter, SnapChat, Instagrams, whatever... That doesn't make you a stalker and that isn't a violation of my privacy. A violation of my privacy is coming into my space, contacting my friends, discussing the business between the two of us, and betraying the trust I placed in you to respect my information. That's my feelings on the situation. Maybe what I learned is that if you don't use your stage name (a name you expect people to call you), that you aren't mature enough to handle the industry. Because if the escort in question had used a reasonable name, then the rest would have been academic.

I am not sure the comparison is equal. As a client, I am not putting myself out there. I am neither the product or the seller. I am not attempting to hide my identity, but I do keep my personal life personal, including severely limiting the amount and type of data I share with any website or company. However, if the provider called me by name, I'd move right along. I know my personal information is out on the internet. If for no other reason than I own property, so my tax bills and deed are part of the public record. Do you think it is reasonable for a client to not do his due diligence? I think you're overstating things. All I did was mention his real first name, instead of his screen name. I actually never disclosed/discussed the thing(s) I found. Based on the implications here, I probably shouldn't have been personal and should have continued to call him "thick-n-hung", or "SexyBottom", or "AllDayLong", or "ItalianStallion", etc... So then, since I'm hiring a personal connection and interaction, when is it appropriate in this type of situation to call someone by their name?

Ok. So I'm asking... I was doing my research on a potential escort, they have limited reviews, and no one has talked about them on here. So, I did phone number and image searches. The phone number came back with there name and I did a Google search on that. Nothing on the image search (which is good, I guess). Anyway, in our back and forth, I mentioned his name, instead of his screenname (which isn't a stage name but a description). He started questioning me on if I knew him and how I found his name. After I told him, he went quiet on me (I think the term is ghosted, but not sure). Well, I heard back and he admitted that he was thrown a bit and taken aback. My question... did I do something wrong? Should I have kept my research/vetting secret? How do you respond to things your clients find out about?

Any info? https://rentmen.com/funcoupleorlando/

Here you go... https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/how-to-clean-your-ass-best-instructional-ive-seen.125234/ https://howtocleanyourass.wordpress.com/

You're talking about multiple issues and attempting to justify your actions after the fact. Two wrongs don't make it right. The ends shouldn't justify the means. The provider used false advertising. Not just sales puffery, but false advertising. Stretching the truth, using slightly outdated pics, using camera angles to hide things, that's sales puffery. Using someone else's information or pics, that false advertising and fraud. That's on him. You found out about it and allowed yourself to be played the victim. That's on you. (You got lucky that he gave a good massage.) Does the massage trump the fraud? Not in my books. Where is this 'confidence game' heading? How can you trust this person to not bait and switch you in the future? Instead of a good massage, how about a robbery instead? I'd say you should go play the lottery while you're still lucky.

That's what I thought. I was hoping the escorts would respond to confirm my suspicions.

@LaffingBear *chuckle* That sounds like a paradox, to me. A client wouldn't know whether a provider is getting rejected wayyy too many times. @marylander1940 That's the point. How would they know if it because there is someone cheaper or some other reason? But so far, it sounds like people are saying that providers don't care about that feedback.

That thread was mostly responded to by clients being rejected. How the client feels or whether the escort should give an explanation. I am asking it the other way around. Do escorts want to know the reason(s) why?