TopTierTop

***FINAL MONTH BASED IN CHICAGO***

This is quite a conundrum for me! Apparently I am in the “wrong business” but I like it and make good money at it. What to do?

Raise your hand if you’re tired of my client/business preferences being the hot topic of conversation!

Ah yes. The ONLY reason is because of self-esteem. NOT. A definitely never-hire escort, folks.

Good point. Could just be that the client has anger issues or just lacks respect for escorts as human beings with the same freedom of choice as clients.

I accept the above screening picture. Hilarious! I do not actively ask for pics, but appreciate if they are sent proactively.

I have never met anyone who refuses to either send a face pic or meet up in person in advance if they prefer. It works for me and I really can’t understand why if it doesn’t work for a potential client they don’t just move on and forget about it. I know I have a lot to offer but I am sure there are many, many others that can provide the service under their terms. I agree that if it makes the client angry that is due to some serious self esteem issues.

This is a good practice. Some (Not me) have certain physical attributes and criteria they look for in a client. A face pic may be to know who to expect at the door also.

You are correct!

Perhaps some one should have told you the world does not turn around you and your needs. If you have self esteem issues I am sorry, you should go to counseling. That does not give you the right to discredit and disrespect honest professionals. If they are screening you, they are doing you a favor, instead of just taking your money and delivering mediocre or poor service.

Well said! Very well said!

would like to see forum member @TopTierTop respond to the recent comments here in the thread started and resurrected by him.....in the past, he has said that screened clients can help the meeting go well for both provider and client.....to be blunt, reading between the lines in his past comments suggests that he could be somewhat repulsed by some clients and not able/willing to give it his all.......

I really have nothing to add.

Or send a pvt message?

 

Hugs,

Greg

Yes. A private message is the way to go for specific questions for me.

Though participating in the forum does increase clients for some of the providers, I am pretty sure their partipation is not for the sole purpose of increasing their business. I think your insights and perspectives have been valuable addition to this community. You are always happy to provide multiple perspectives and stand by then in a logical and thoughtful manner. I agree if your participation is for the intent of increasing business then probably not the best use of your time.

I would say participation has been a net positive for me.

Nice to hear....happy to "help".....downtown / N. Michigan Ave actually has several good price options....again, all clean / comfortable / safe....(& all w/good quality king size mattresses )......the exact location of Inn of Chicago simply worked best for me....often for a simple couple/few hours away from my office during some of my times in Chicago.

Thanks again. Appreciate the tip.

For a great bargain / great location (just off N. Michigan Ave) in downtown Chicago - clean / comfortable / safe.....v v good for a simple hire - Inn of Chicago.....really good prices for value received.....

 

https://www.theinnofchicago.com/

I have used this hotel twice now since seeing this post. Clients were happy to pay such a low room rate. A great recommendation! Thanks.

Interesting. I had expected (I won't say assumed) that it would take a little longer than that. And I don't mean for you in particular, just as a general case.

Nah... as soon as I feel like it is leading to an appointment, I tell him my name and ask what he wants me to call him, if he hasn’t already told me.

As a client I love spending my whole hour with an escort, but sometimes i feel some escorts can't stop looking at the clock.

 

Why is that? Why the rush? Do you guys have fun at all with clients?

I always have fun and I never look at the clock. It’s very typical for me that I will spend a few minutes talking at little bit before of after. But that is not included in my rate. Almost all of my clients book 90 minutes. With the few minutes before and after, that really solves to “rush” issue.

Do any escorts here reveal their real name to the client after the session? Consider this, you meet a client who you run the chance of seeing out in public. Wouldn't it be awkward if you're with friends and he said hey .... (insert escort name here) .... rather than your real name. I know it's a case by case basic but I was just wondering your thoughts? What if you discover the client may know other friends of yours?

 

Keenan

I always give my real first name as soon as I feel like it is going to be a good match. It’s about relationship building, and, for me. using my real name is one way to do that.

Did he watch?

No. I never even met him. His husband just gave him the money to pay me.

Curious if any escorts have ever used the search tab and looked at clients ads. Would you ever contact them yourself first ?

 

To the client's, how would you feel if an escort contacted you first?

I send messages to potential clients who have looked at my profile multiple times, when I have time. Never had any complaints and it does lead to new clients.

Has someone ever hired you as a gift for another person like say a birthday etc.?

Yes. Not too long ago. The husband of a male couple hired me for his spouse’s birthday. No threesome (I don’t do that). Just me and the spouse.

Good to see you on here again, Rico.

Thanks, Mike!

Edgewater here! Until June, anyway.

Personally, I am monitoring this thread but not signing up. Too many unknowns, and looks like they have a ways to go before I would be interested. I’m just going to wait a few more months and keep an eye on what clients and providers are saying here.

This is for the Escorts that have a booked client. Everything is set, what the client expects, time and place. When that day arrives. I usually text or email them several hours before to confirm our appointment The client tell you everything is a still on, and will give you the address closer to our appointment time. You pick out your clothes, shower, shave and do everything to be "Ready " for the reason you were hired.. Only to have that client not respond to any further communication.

 

Why is so difficult for a client to let the escort know something has changed and they will not be able to keep our appointment.....

I can’t think of any incident where a client canceled at the last minute. I have had more than a few who have canceled with a reasonable amount of notice. The thing I noticed though is how unwell clients’ relatives seem to be. Often a sick or dying relative in another state whom they have to go visit is the reason they give. But the most common reason given is work. Something came up and they unexpectedly have to work. It’s not typical that a client cancels, so it doesn’t really bother me much when it happens.

If you were an escort would you go for a free sample session?

 

That's too much and somewhat weird....

 

But I'm not trying to get a new site started.

HELL NO! Not a chance! Creepy!