Dmitri

I have to say the "I'm cute - Pay me!" stance gets old real quick.

@Mustang , you put that perfectly!

A friend told me that if a masseur mentions "sensual" or "erotic" and lists amounts, it could be a sting. How can you tell?

If that was true, 99% of masseurs listed on Rentmasseur could potentially be involved in "sting operations." Relax, what your friend told you is false.

I asked a couple and they told me they aren’t allowed. Maybe he was lying or didn’t know how.

It is true. Rentmasseur changed their policy and masseurs don't have passwords to give out for free access.

Looks cute but not going for it for that rate IMO

Ditto. $180 for a 1 hr. massage ( which actually probably ends up being 50 minutes at most ) is pushing the envelope no matter what a masseur looks like.

The price, yes. But I fail to see how more pics makes someone less legit.

I only mentioned the over abundance of photos a masseur posts on massage sites such as Masseurfinder as a red flag of other things going on (happy ending, etc) in the context that when someone is seeking a strictly therapeutic massage, why would they need 12 photos of the masseur? A client seeking a strictly therapeutic massage is only interested in the massage skills of the masseur...or masseuse. Think the massage chain Massage Envy. A person does not call Massage Envy and ask for a photo, or several photos of who will massage them. They ask about their massage skills. Go to Yelp and type in "massage" for the city you live in. Rarely will they even have a photo of the masseur or the masseuse on Yelp......and if they do, it will just be 1 photo, since they are legit. Masseurfinder has many photos for their masseurs, since most MF clients hire based on looks for obvious reasons, and as we all know, the majority of masseurs on MF do more than massage.

I don't like Masseurfinder being so "clean." I like to see shirtless photos, so I can check out the masseur's body before the massage session online. With the "no shirtless" photo policy they have, you can't tell what is underneath the shirt. I have on numerous occasions hired from MF only to have a masseur show up, strip down to do the massage, and the flabby, belly fat was a real buzz kill and turn off. If I had seen that in the photos I would have passed. (That is why I like the shirtless photos on Rentmasseur) And as far as MF being legit, what "legit" massage website has the masseur post a gallery of photos....sometimes up to 12......that look like a modeling portfolio? And then charge in the range of $120-$170/hr? To law enforcement this would be a red flag that the site is not legit. A "legit site" would have ONE photo of the masseur, and charge the standard rate of $60-$75/hr.

Condom is the new “C” word.

It offends guys and makes them gasp as much as calling a woman a C@&$.....

 

I literally get ghosted on apps when a suitor asks me of my sex practices, and I shamefully admit that I’m a condom user....

Don't be ashamed. I am a condom user also.....there are LOTS of us out here!

Just read through this thread. I "get it" that he is not 19 years old anymore. I "get it" that he is nutty, and forum members advise not to go to him. That is where the feedback should stop, and what this forum is for, to give feedback. It is not to ridicule, berate, and bully. I know it is all in good fun, but a few posts mocking this guy would be more than enough. But to have it go on and on, using him as a human punching bag, I feel is a pretty crummy thing to do. Sure, it is great for a good laugh, but we are laughing at and mocking one of our own community. Most of us were bullied as "different" when we were kids, teenagers, and even as adults for being gay. We were picked on, put down, and made to feel awful about ourselves. And reading through this post reminds me of the gay bashing that some of us experienced or witnessed. And here we are doing it to one of our own. We are not gay bashing this guy, but we are shaming and bullying him for his appearance, no matter how old he is now,or what he looks like now. I don't feel that this thread is what the Forum is about. If you do not like someone's appearance, just say so, and don't hire him. But don't rip him apart and ridicule him. I feel most of us in the Forum are better than this, getting gleeful pleasure by attacking someone. It kinds of turns my stomach reading the comments here that are about a member of our own community, using him as a human punching bag, basing the jokes on his physical appearance, however different it may be from our own standards, and how old he must be by now. Or how unattractive he must be by now. I am all for a good joke, but this seems overtly cruel to me.

Drop dead gorgeous. Too bad —- strictly therapeutic only.

 

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38941/

Hell, I would go to him, even if it is strictly therapeutic. $90 for a one hour massage by a hot guy is a great price!

I respect what anyone is into....but I was grossed out by most of his ad description. ( Let me drink your pee, eat your poop?? For a massage ad??) Call me old fashioned, but I would just be happy with a full body massage in the nude by a hot guy, with mutual touch and a happy ending.

I reached out to him. He wanted to be paid in google play cards which I’ve never heard of before. Decided to pass because it just seemed shady.

Excellent decision!

Ask 5 different masseurs what their definition of "Mutual Touch" is, and you will get 5 different answers. There is no "one" definition of what mutual touch is during a massage. It varies from masseur to masseur.

That's a pleasant way to look at it.

Greetings

I clicked the link in the review for the masseurfinder ad and when I do ( and I did three times ) it takes me back to the review ???

Pourquoi ?

https://daddysreviews.com/cruise/newest

Go ahead and give it a try...

Thoughts

I have noticed the same thing if ANY of the reviews....not just this one.... have a Masseurfinder link. Rentman links go through. But not Masseurfinder links. I might be mistaken here, but I think this is deliberate. I have a feeling that Masseurfinder, being a conservative massage website, (no shirtless photos, etc.) does not want their reputation soiled with any reviews from Daddy's site, since some do allude to "adult activities". As a result, Masseurfinder bounces back the link.

Guess $180/hr was to high priced. Even the masseur had to agree. He has now dropped his rate to $150/hr. (which I feel is still to high for a strictly therapeutic 1 hr. massage.) Maybe by next month he will drop it to $120/hr?

OMFG. Anthony is BEAUTIFUL. Holy CHRIST. Anyone willing to PM me about the extras?

 

Just.... WOW.

Agreed. A beautiful man. Give him a call. I spoke with him last week. He answered on the second ring, and answered all my questions. Polite. Friendly. And if you like his pics, you gotta hear his voice. A DEEP , sexy voice with an even sexier accent!

Anthony texted me that he and his partner are $200/hour.

Anthony told me the same thing when I called him. He sure has an odd pricing structure. He charges $180/hr for a massage session just with him. And $200 for a massage session with himself and his partner. Only $20 more for his partner to join in? Sounds strange.

https://www.massagefinder.com/massage-therapists/37072/

 

So I’m guessing purely therapeutic as he’s not on Masseurfinder or RentMasseur.

 

Feel free to share

Only one way to find out....call and ask him.

The price is $180/hr....overpriced for me.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/37985/

 

Appears to be working solo.

Very pricey...but what a fucking gorgeous guy. He hits all the right spots for me. A future hire for sure.

If I see ask I usually move on to the next one. I like to know at least the starting point. I assume when they post ask they are going to ask for a lot of money.

Amen to that.

Just to further my distrust; both guys now have one stellar review each. Both are written by the same client “Eddiesmith”. Coincidence? What are your thoughts guys?

Do you really need to ask? Isn't it obvious? Even you admit you "distrust" them. In both your posts you point out behavior that shouts out bizarre/weird/fishy. AVOID.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/38076/

 

This guy requested $260 to come to me ($7.30 Uber one-way) for a 90 minute massage. I declined.

 

Why are massages so expensive?

Because clients pay it. I have seen many comments in this Forum of members willing to pay high prices such as this masseur, for someone they desire, for one reason or another. @whatahoot8 , go fishing for the $120/hr guys.....there are tons of them out there.

It seems over a period they have changed significantly with no standard. What is the typical charge for massage? I generally give 220 with tip for 90 mins. Tip anywhere from 0-20% depending on service, environment, cleanliness etc. if someone shorts on time then no tip. I have seen it ranging as far as 400. What do you think should be real service charge for massage?

The standard is that there is no standard. It all depends on the location, therapeutic or sensual or erotic......hot, muscular, young.....vs older, out of shape....services offered. It is all over the place. So like I said, the standard is that there is no standard.

At the end of the day, it is about what the client wants....not the masseur's choice....text or phone call with the masseur is the client's choice. (unless the masseur insists on text and then will just lose the client) Because without the client, the masseur industry would not exist. If a masseur is not in a discreet place to answer questions, then they can just text the client with a time that works when they can speak openly on the phone. If both masseur and client find texting is the best fit for them, then great! But if a client wants a quick phone call, then a masseur that wants his business should oblige him. I have found that what you can accomplish in a 3 minute phone call with questions/answers can take 10 texts back and forth over 10 minutes.