TantricMD

I'm a client, and my partner used to be an escort. We've both had our fair share of creeps and rude people (from clients sending him on false outcalls, to escorts rushing me when they had arrived late).
The ratio is obviously worse for the escorts because he will always meet more people than the client, but clients have also had their time wasted.
 
On the other hand - take it from an old dinosaur that you've never had it so good. My partner who is nearly the same age, had no Internet, no phone and no police support when he started escorting decades ago.

You're input is just as valuable. Somehow, I had a feeling about this... but I classified it under "fetish".

I don't know if this is actually him behind this site, but he also advertises a cam show site https://texdavidsonxxx.wixsite.com/mysite. Now I have np with cam show sites or those who want to patronize them, but his public ad on Jack'd says he is in the DC area, willing to meet and play if you go to his site and reserve a "free" booking, which amounts to you adding your credit card info on a cam site and being charged after a 2-day free trial. In other words, you don't get to meet him without signing up for the site. I didn't do it because I figured it was a complete scam that he may not even be behind. But it's out there with his name on it. Beware.

I am wondering why all these masseurs that clearly are not trained and have no clue of what a massage is don’t attend some workshops or short courses on how to do a proper massage? Not asking for a full certification. Just some basic knowledge to be better at what they do. Aren’t they embarrassed of the mediocre massages they provide? I know we all like the extras, that’s why we are here, but some of them cannot even save the session with the extras.

I met him at an Adonis nude party in NYC. Super nice and friendly guy. And generous with his time to discuss training. BUT STRAIGHT!! In the end a lap dance from him would have been as awkward as lap dancing with your training partner so I passed.

Hello my adorable men-geishas!
 
After the initial panic storm unleashed by SESTA/FOSTA, I am feeling more and more confident it is just a lot of noise about an unenforceable regulation.
 
Not only that, but I am also starting to feel a little tiny bit pinch of hopeful. In an environment where shamelessly abusive values and behaviors are finally motivating and feeding a grass root movement of Empathetic America, I hope this misguided move by Prudish USA will unite and feed whatever activism exist in our subculture.
 
I would like to join.
 
What advocacy groups would you recommend me to join and why?
 
Thank you all.
 
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You're input is just as valuable. Somehow, I had a feeling about this... but I classified it under "fetish".

LOL. I am not an escort, I am one of the creepy clients.

@latbear4blk There is no right answer. That's the purpose of such a discussion. I'm curious to hear all perspectives, taking them all into account, hopefully finding some similarities that might form a consensus, but this is not a one size fits all query. A simpler barometer might be: if you liked it, lean toward nice and if you didn't, vote creepy. Thanks for your comment.

I guess I should respond in kind and say that 85% of my massage & escort interactions have been amazing, and 15% are ones that I wouldn't return to only due to chilly communication or attitude, lack of skill (though pretty ), or they were in some other way disengaged (too tired, too high, too worried about next appt).
 
So far, pretty positive outcomes. Love to get some more feedback from both sides.

I see that you meant "encounter" as in actually meeting and being hired by them. I consider escorting also involves answering the phone, emails, etc.
 
I'm sure it's 99% nice guys trying to have a good time, and 1% who have some baggage, do drugs, have a love-hate relationship because they have to pay, etc.

Let me clarify by saying that the original question only refers to clients. I would not add those who do not book or follow through in that category. I'm speaking only of those who pros have made appts with and actually met. I think it is important to take into account the timewasters, but this topic is not that one.
 
Keep in mind, my inquiry is of the clients pros have met, what percentage dont turn out turn be worth it.

Hello escorts,
 
I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.
 
I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.
 
I appreciate the feedback,
TantricMD

Those oe Percentages seem pretty spot on! I'd split the time waster percentage in half and say the other half are tire kicker type inquiries and their "time wasting tendencies" were not intentional.

Of the clients that actually schedule and show up, 99% are absolutely delightful, respectful and professional. As far as time wasters, for me that only occupies maybe 15-20% of the emails I recieved.

Hello escorts,
 
I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.
 
I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.
 
I appreciate the feedback,
TantricMD

Thanks @mike carey , wasn't sure how that worked .

Thanks @mike carey , wasn't sure how that worked .

It all depends on how and where you advertise your services. I know, because I’ve worked many different environments in many different ways and price ranges over the years.
 
My current business model is designed to maximise my ratio of genuine/respectful clients to other inquiries and it works well.

Hello escorts,
 
I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.
 
I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.
 
I appreciate the feedback,
TantricMD

Hello escorts,
 
I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.
 
I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.
 
I appreciate the feedback,
TantricMD

I contacted him via the Rentboy phone number and he verified that the wixsite (cam site) was a fruad.

Update, I sent him a text message through his escort site and he responded that it is a scam. He has tried to have it removed with no success.

I don't know if this is actually him behind this site, but he also advertises a cam show site https://texdavidsonxxx.wixsite.com/mysite. Now I have np with cam show sites or those who want to patronize them, but his public ad on Jack'd says he is in the DC area, willing to meet and play if you go to his site and reserve a "free" booking, which amounts to you adding your credit card info on a cam site and being charged after a 2-day free trial. In other words, you don't get to meet him without signing up for the site. I didn't do it because I figured it was a complete scam that he may not even be behind. But it's out there with his name on it. Beware.

Hello escorts,
 
I've always been curious about the percentage of creeps, impolite, or rude guys you encounter. It seems to be a hot topic among masseurs and escorts, so I have always been curious to what ratio of your clients are genuinely nice, or even average non-complicated clients, to those that are creepy, rude, or impolite and make you feel like you feel you wish you had never met them.
 
I consider myself to be a normal client. I book ahead, don't cancel, and I'm very clear about my requests. I pay and tip. I'm not clingy and if I enjoy the experience I like to repeat because I enjoy familiar engagements that grow over brand new meetings, though I like to test the waters and switch out from time to time just to keep myself from relying on one or two. I have my favorites which have priority and I think I treat them well.
 
I appreciate the feedback,
TantricMD