Are they? I went to my first nude party on pride weekend and I did not think they were aggressive at all lol and I think the headliners don't pay a fee.
Fairytail was also special events. I think Adonis got a nice mix of guys and Spunk at The Monster as well. In fact, you can see 30 or more dancers any given Thursday. Pieces is more latino, not as much as Nowhere.
Atlas, Evolve, Pieces, and Nowhere Bar still offer it once or twice per week. Monster is actually the most privatish, and I don't see how it is yucky compared with Fairytail lol.
I've seen Mr. Mecum in a few Adonis events, his pics are very real and he is quite nice fellow with thighs to die for. Not sure where the criticism comes from.