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It's a terrible idea. May seem sexy in theory - but it ends badly. Sorry babe.

Somewhat different, but the first escort I ever hired showed up with a leg cast covered by a plastic bag.

Or a filter for anyone with one of those ridiculous doggie nose and ears fotos.

Or a filter for anyone with one of those ridiculous doggie nose and ears fotos.

Or a filter for anyone with one of those ridiculous doggie nose and ears fotos.

Or a filter for anyone with one of those ridiculous doggie nose and ears fotos.

Or a filter for anyone with one of those ridiculous doggie nose and ears fotos.

Exactly! Wonderful...
Have a great time

Right?!?!

My experience closely echoes this... It's been fantastic.

BINGO

Mama always said you gotta kiss a lotta frogs to find your prince

My listing emphatically states that they must be local and must want to meet in person ASAP so I've had basically no fakers from the US. From Russia, yes.

I have had the same experience. A few nice young men who enjoy the company and security of an older man. It's incredibly difficult for young people these days to get a foot hold in life. When mummy and daddy aren't always available to some people to help, it's particularly appealing to have someone around who DOES.

Wow, this thread has been busy. I've spent the last hour getting caught up on it.
 
First and foremost, thank you MrMiniver for starting this thread. I had never heard of this site and after reading the the earlier posts I decided to sign up for it in December and try it out.
 
I have been very honest with everyone I have chatted with on the site, making it very clear that I have no intention of paying anyone an allowance just to go out with me. If that's what they're looking for, I have nothing but best wishes in their finding it, but it isn't going to be from me. On the other hand, I'm happy to pay for everything on our dates, which could end up being a cruise or even a trip overseas (I love to travel), but I'm not supporting them, unless our dates lead to a LTR.
 
I very quickly found someone who seemed interesting and we chatted for about three weeks before we finally met (I told him I couldn't meet until after the New year because of the holidays and family visiting from overseas). It's been two months now and the only thing that would make me happier would be if we could see more of each other. We are both busy and he lives near downtown LA and I live in what's called the South Bay (it took me two hours to get to his house on Valentine's Day). He's young, tall, handsome, and just as nice as can be. And he's never asked me for a dime. He struggles a bit, and I have offered to help a bit, but he's never made that a condition of our relationship.
 
I've waded through many guys on the site as the rest of you have, but, in L.A. at least, there are some out there looking for the same thing I am. Even if the current relationship ends, I count the site a success.

It's entirely possible.
I guess it depends on what you're looking for.
 
I began looking on SA because I wanted something regular with someone I had some chemistry with and I was getting weary of the treadmill of mass-production escort experiences.
 
If you want to look at it on a purely financial basis, if I'd paid escorts for the overnights and evenings I'd spent with SA guys it would have been massively more than any subscription fees could ever be. But, that's really not the point for me.

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Yes of course...we met at a local cafe for a bit to get acquainted. He is sweet, earnest and not interested in pay for play or being "kept". Just likes older men. BOY DOES HE!!! Wow!
 
He will be treated to nice dinners and gifts from me because I choose to do that. I in turn will be treated to some of the best sex ever! OMG!!!
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Gee, so many naysayers weighing in on this subject.
 
I'm glad I tried SA and am VERY happy with the results.

CLEARLY ! The only dates I've ever been on, that did not end in sex were in High School and with girls...and even with most of them, I got laid. I would point out that any beautiful woman, who's dating a successful business man is putting out on a regular basis in an effort to win the grand prize. No one brings home an escort to meet their mom.

What I meant by normal, is that people don't always PAY for sex. When you are shopping for a rich husband, you're not charging by the hour.

Ummmm...that's called having a NORMAL RELATIONSHIP with someone. Having you been so focused on pay for play, that you forgot how MOST people do it ? The majority of these young, men are not interested in a series of strangers paying their rent. They want one successful older man to take responsibility away from them, and in exchange offer themselves as a "constant companion"....aren't all relationships between younger and older pretty much the same thing ?

Clearly, [uSER=12155]@Dominiking[/uSER], it's not for you.
I enjoy unraveling the layers myself. And with success, at least by my goals.

Well said and worth reiterating. Behaving ethically and treating those who are truly in a difficult circumstance not of their making invites good karma. Being honest and 100% transparent with your intentions will benefit everyone in the long term.

One interesting observation about my SA experiences thus far: I've encountered all kinds of guys - naive, suspicious, inexperienced, unrealistic, modest, boastful, tentative, etc., but I've only come across one game-player. A guy in Houston who was very interested in me very early. He was highly interested in meeting me ASAP and nailing down a date and time. I looked around and it turns out he had a string of BackPage ads he had run in several cities in the Western US.
I mentioned it in passing - it was by no means a disqualifier for me - but his tone changed and he became even more persistent except he began including dollar figures and things he would do. Thanks but no thanks.
 
I see a fair number of RM guys on SA and it doesn't change much from my perspective except that 1) it makes the financial discussion much easier, and 2) I become wary of the relationship being a generic escort assembly-line experience.

I'm not sure you read what I wrote or understand the nature of the arrangement. He was there to "audition" for what is, essentially, a part. He failed the audition and was clueless that he had done so. Even though we talked about it incessantly for 4 days. If someone wants something UPFRONT, then they should state that. Otherwise, they need to go with the agreement that was made.
 
I think it's the "sugar babies" trying to get something for nothing, or something for as little as possible. That shit won't fly with me. You either do what we agreed upon or you get NOTHING. Period. End of discussion. I don't play games.