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As you have highlighted trying to make amends as your first 2 choices, I'm going to assume that your priority is maintaining this relationship. Escortrod's advice to first broach the subject of the both of you seeing a relationship counsellor first is sound. It could support the first (and maybe even the second) choice as it should help to identify where the barriers for miscommunication has happened within your relationship, and possibly help to facilitate dialogue as to your respective needs for intimacy. Having this sort of discourse is best mediated, as your husband is processing a lot of anger and distrust. I hope it all works out in the end.

"Straight Chicken" is just growing up and realising you don't like girls.

Although I do objectively recognise Mr Efron to be attractive, I think a major reason as to why I don't have an urgency towards him is that the sum of all his parts reads as conventional to me. From an early age, he has pretty much played the popular good looking jock kid, and now the popular jock, and that's kinda of a turn off for me.

Troll! You can do this IF all the mentions about Canuck escorts get moved out of The Deli.

I don't really use rentmen so I couldn't really say, but yeah I find that communicating with escorts through the sleepyboy email system to be unreliable, and much better if you send them a text. Definitely visit London, even if you don't meet up with Jacob, plenty of quality guys here

If I remember correctly (can't be arsed to double check), Bravo Delta is a pocket rocket 5'4".

As the resident filipino on this forum (not sure if there are others), geographically Philippines is closer to mainland Asia ( roughly kinda similar distance as Japan to the continent) than it is to Polynesia. Most filipinos identify as south-east Asian. We share many pre-colonialised culture and language with Malaysia and Indonesia, and have taken on Chinese culture just as much as Spanish and American culture. Filipinos can be dark and look Samoan due to stronger ties to the indigenous cultures, or even Central/South American due to historic ties to Latin America, or look light due to the mixed Spanish heritage, or even more asian due to Chinese, Japanese, or Korean due to more recent migration. In diversity monitoring forms, I always indicate "asian other" Also, if anyone finds a quality asian top/vers for when I get round to visiting NY, let me know.

Hmmmm, this might be from a newbie perspective, but I guess I mean "solid" by the fact that I've seen his his ad around for a while now, he tends to keep it updated, he has some reviews, clear images, letter style ad copy, etc. I'll tell you guys some time next year if I was right in my intended context, and if he's solid by any other means

He's on my list! his profile on sleepyboy has some written reviews but they're not very in depth - https://www.sleepyboy.com/uk/london/gay-escort/JacobLDN - I do get the impression though that he's becoming one of the more solid escorts on London *shrug*

Can I be the twink tying up the jock?

Nope, you're right, although he is on the higher end of London pricing....although I think I've seen higher *shrug* I'll put him back on my to-do list.

They're soo beautiful *hearteyes*

It does, doesn't it? There also something quite intimate and caring about the pup/trainer roles that could be undertaken. Life goal is to find me a hubby that wants to be a pup with me.

Ahhhhh gotcha, you want to be the handler, I think.

Find your inner pup and entertain yourself first, you got the toy, use it!