jake1973

Ever need a cameraman in NY, LMK. I'd love to be a fly on the wall at something like that.

My last visit was in 2017 or so... it wasn't Mardi Gras or Southern Decadence but I still couldn't believe how tame it was compared to when I used to be down there on the reg. No nudity, touching barely allowed. I remember when dancers were lying on the bar, getting sucked, jerked, fingered, you name it.   I guess cell phone cameras and the internet really put the kibosh on a lot of that, IDK.

On 6/25/2021 at 7:40 PM, CheckCar said:

I hope a heavy presence of women doesn’t become the norm. I’ve seen before how that can disrupt and alter the vibe of a space initially intended for gay male desires. 

That is very true. Forget the name of the bar a few doors uptown from the Cock (Urge maybe?) went in there for a stripper night and the place was over-run by screeching bachelorettes. If I want to hear arguments about centerpieces and bloating I'll go to brunch w/ my friends thanks.

Also Wet, where I worked occasionally forever ago along with the original Follies, the "new" iteration was about as sexy as a pancake house.

I got the sense from their web site that College Hunks Moving Junk doesn't actually make any promises about what your movers look like. Maybe I missed something. I am usually the one who gets recruited to help people move their shit, but I suspect that is not for my looks LOL.

On 12/31/2021 at 5:01 AM, Whitman said:

Someone got in trouble on vacation. He knew it was a bad idea to streak in the lobby, but he did it anyway.

On 12/24/2020 at 6:22 AM, Whitman said:

Ah Tim K from Pumping Muscle RIP

LV gay-centric strip club scene is sadly and surprisingly lacking. However I have been to Piranha and the gogo’s there are uber hot, scantily clad and very friendly

Any nights in particular?

I think if you're seeing more/coarser hair it could also be because your body changes as you age.

I wonder if beard softener works on other places. Hair wouldn't bother me so much if it was soft.

Wondering about New Orleans, it's been a long time since I was there but the dancers were regularly nude on the bar in multiple places (Corner Pocket, Bourbon Pub and Lafitte's off the top of my head). Have they put a stop to that?

I went once, on a Sunday. It was fun, not really crowded but I did not mind. Dancers were friendly without being too pushy. I would go more but it is a long ride for me.

How long has it been that dancers can't be nude? Didn't use to be the case.

Once place that I danced wanted us shaved including the legs. I hated that! If it felt nice for a day (debatable) it was miserable when it grew back. I challenged it and trimmed close and got away with it. This was a long time ago. I still like to trim close all over. That reminds me I want to do my chest.

Had a fun scene with a buddy yesterday, he drew some pics of me in some new gear I got in between edging me for a long time before I finally got off after 3 hours!

My scenes have been more casual and usually did not lead to sex. I did casual "houseboy" work for a gay couple years ago and would waiter at their parties in little sport briefs and stuff, do odd jobs for them naked while they went about their weekend routines. Also had an artist friend who would sketch me when he felt inspired, otherwise we would just be hanging out. Now I see a guy, also an artist, who is a little more assertive, helps himself to a feel, gets me hard, etc.

I think it's very erotic ... and makes for an interesting (and, maybe, variable) power dynamic. Is the one who is naked the more vulnerable? Or would that be the fellow intoxicated by the nude body at his fingertips?

 

http://68.media.tumblr.com/f7b85510b705f348564211a734db54a6/tumblr_og98a9xaq11vqryiko1_400.jpg

Yea it really depends, maybe on each's motive for being there and their attraction to one another.

I'm hot & cold about them, it really depends on how the scene is presented. Check out some of William Higgin's "Airport Security" videos, you might like them.

I've seen them, I like the regular shoots better where the cameraman has free reign to "adjust" as needed. I like the older ones where Bill would wander onto the set, give the model a little stroke or goose him a bit, just cos he could.

I was at both of these clubs a few years ago and had a good time. Apart from the novelty (for me) of nude guys on stage there wasn't really anything raunchy happening. There seemed to be a number of straight couples there, for one thing.

Wondering if anybody here enjoys CMNM scenes (Basically where one guy gets naked while the other(s) stay dressed).

Always been a favorite of mine although I'm not into giving or getting humiliation, BDSM etc. which I know a lot of guys conflate with this scene. I like something more laid back, where the naked guy is admired and affirmed.

I'd post photo examples but I'm not sure what the rules are. I dig clips of photo shoots etc. where the naked guy is subject to businesslike touching and "arranging" or casual strokes.

Has anyone been to The Boys Room at XL Nightclub on Sundays?

 

http://xlnightclub.com/events/bnb/

I'm confused (again) I didn't think this place was gay anymore... I read it closed and was called BPM now.

@jake1973

 

You should check out the Adonis monthly nude party (the one not at Paddles). Those can be a lot of fun!

So if it's not at Paddles is it the one in White Plains? Confused. Thanks.

New here, would like to make buds for one of these adventures.