I think having both is ideal and, true, you cannot tell you will get the best of both given ad content. I've read experiences posted in the forum to help make a decision on someone in particular but as "massage" goes, it's a gamble. Based on experiences here, I selected someone rated high on both massage and "extra curricular," paid a lot of money and in the end was disappointed. I kind of shy away from massage service providers but would not close the door as reading the experiences of others may just change my mind.