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curiousbynature12

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  1. OP, you will need the following to stay "safe" from COVID-19 during a massage: A large enough home where you could self isolate with a masseur Money to hire a masseur to live with you full time Both of you to NEVER leave the home Money for people to deliver and sanitize food, water and supplies delivered to your home Access to doctors that can safely administer the COVID tests to you and your masseur safely at home 24/7 so you always have accurate results Screening of everyone coming in and out of your home That should provide you with a "safe" way to get a massage! Every other method comes with risks and you need to figure out how much risk you're willing to handle based on your personal circumstances and the level of infections in your area.
  2. Totally fair. I personally love bottoms like that, so I'll try to see him if I end up going to Vegas in the fall. Vegas reminds me of Houston and Dallas, Phoenix, etc. in terms of cities with that have a lower cost barrier for luxury housing. If Vegas had a stronger/more diverse economy, and was more gay and less transient, it'd be a good place to live in full time.
  3. Relationships, and people change with the times. Consider talking to that friend and try to understand how he came to his racist views if the relationship is that important to you. Share with him why his racism bothers you. See if he's willing to examine his views and work on them. If he's not willing to do anything to change, it's on you to decide what to do next.
  4. Alam is dating Arad? I assumed Alam was mainly into very hung guys, but they seemed to have a lot of chemistry in their content, so good for them! If I was hiring right now, I'd still hire him, even with his rates. I love the insatiable vibe he gives off when he bottoms and the reviews here seem consistently positive about the experience. His cash flow from OF is all the more reason to see him while you can.
  5. Wild Seed by Octavia Butler The Rook by Daniel O'Malley Where Our Food Comes From: Retracing Nikolay Vavilov's Quest to End Famine by Gary Paul Nabhan Ida: A Sword Among Lions: Ida B. Wells and the Campaign Against Lynching by Paula J. Giddings
  6. How can someone be under a witch trial for willingly making their views known online? As a professional in my field, I knew since my early 20s that anything I post online could comeback to affect my career and carried my online presence in that fashion. Anyone who exists in this internet age is aware of it as well. As stated many times in this thread, this thread is not to judge one way or another on whether someone is racist. This is to list those who are those being exposed as racist with context this moment. There are so many being exposed for their comments on social media in light of recent events that it doesn't make sense to make individual threads. If you want to chime in on whether that was your experience or not feel free, but discussions about racism and racial preferences among providers is not the purpose of this thread and only serve to derail the topic. There are many not on social media who are unaware of this information, so the transparency helps these clients as well.
  7. This response doesn't seem to be rational. Are you ok? Did you have a bad day, latbear4blk?
  8. The premise of these posts were clear in my op. Also these are not reviews - that's not allowed in this subforum. Sex workers are professionals. This thread doesn't accuse people of being racist, just that they are accused of making them in public. No one is forcing you to be here. Take your fragility elsewhere if this hiring criterion is too sensitive a topic for you.
  9. Ok, but I wanted to be clear that I wasn't doing this because of cancel culture. People who make racist/racial statements come from broad walks of life. Educated or not. Mature (which is not always tied to age) or immature.
  10. Cool. I added the context. If you don't think it's racist, ok. You should make a post elsewhere about that.
  11. ...Yet you still took the time to post and bump the thread. Thanks Becket! ☺
  12. I didn't state that these people should be "canceled". I personally do not like cancel culture as I don't think people actually get cancelled, and it doesn't give them space to evolve and possibly become better people. However, as a client, that may not be my primary concern, and being involved with someone who can't manage their behavior online is a liability. You are also making some generalizations (see the bold) that does not reflect all or arguably most providers. If you want to discuss racial bias and how that may or may not link with people's positions on policing, please do that on another thread in the Politics sub-forum.
  13. I am going to keep doing this. If you don't want to see or contribute, you do not have to be here. Racism absolutely is political, but this thread is about listing out providers and content creators who have been "exposed" as racists. The discussion of their racism and the larger racism in gay culture can be had elsewhere, but not here. The point is to add transparency and a bit of context. From there, people can make their own decisions.
  14. For context, this is the tweet that got Jake Orion in trouble. Here is also his apology. Dillon Anderson got called out for not using his platform to talk about George Floyd and the protests. He's also shared his preferences on Tumblr in the past, which may also get him in trouble.
  15. I'm just here to post info on providers being anti-black racist as it shows up online. Do what you will with the information. It's your choice. EDIT: I don't want to have a debate on this thread and don't want this kicked to the politics sub forum. If you want to discuss the political details, do it on another thread.
  16. Would love a disclaimer from escorts. Hopefully Midwest will add something like that in his RM profile when/if he starts working again.
  17. Thank you. I prefer receipts, but if you like proof, feel free to use that. They are screenshots from a DM, not exactly something you can link to. People are probably in his comments in IG, so feel free to check there.
  18. Yes. If people are threatening in his posts to kick his ass in public, you might want to know that if you plan to be seen with him in public. Knowing whether someone is known publically as a racist is a factor in hiring. This about making a more informed decision.
  19. In light of the global BLM protests, it makes sense to have this thread. This will focus on escorts, but open to including masseurs, OF people, porn actors, and other SW who have made racist comments. Hopefully this helps you make a decision on who want to hire/consume their content. Please feel free to contribute, but make sure you include receipts. For example: Escort : MidwestMuscleBoy Profile: https://rentmen.eu/MidwestMuscleBoy Midwest made comments on his Instagram calling a black guy the N-word and said that he only uses black guys for their BBC. Screenshots can be found here: [MEDIA=twitter]1268486578646642688[/MEDIA]
  20. OP, I usually avoid straight guys because they have more limits, and are rarely great at being interactive bottoms, at least in the US.
  21. I think it may be more interesting to look at the following concerning US food supply chain challenges: Meat processing plants linked to COVID-19 hot spots Farmers forced to euthanize millions of pigs: Thirty Workers, Four USDA Inspectors Dead Amid Meat Plant Coronavirus Outbreaks Coronavirus and Farmworkers: Is the Food Supply at Risk? Personally, I think Americans should be more concerned with protecting workers and inspectors and creating safe conditions on farms and meat processing plants. It's good for the people and businesses involved, but would do a lot to protect our food supply chain that is uniquely vulnerable to COVID-19.
  22. I wonder why AC actually wanted a kid. Or why people willingly choose to have kids in general. All the best to young Wyatt. Hopefully he grows up in a safe and loving environment with his father.
  23. I wonder why AC actually wanted a kid. Or why people willingly choose to have kids in general. All the best to young Wyatt. Hopefully he grows up in a safe and loving environment with his father.
  24. Discovering your p-spot wouldn't make one a bottom, but good on him for making assplay videos. Hopefully he gets addicted to the feeling of getting his ass stretched by thicker and longer dildos...
  25. What's wrong with being honest and admitting that one's sexual capital is a big factor in the gay community and has influenced young gay male behavior online? We all obviously participate in it to some extent. People do not get thousands of likes and retweets, features on gay publications, or in the broader culture from just being educated and professionally accomplished. For younger people, many of whom were closeted, they got into gay culture via porn and/or by social media, which values specific body types a big dick/ass, and one's perceived masculinity, among other criterion that informs on ones sexual capital. The access to the internet and social media is factor, but the culture is as well, and sex has long been a big part of it. Edit: To be clear, I don't care if young gays want to post nudes online. I'm just surprised people may not realize where the behavior comes from.
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