topinla

Yes, I often do. Try it. It is not the same as with escorts. It requires more effort and is more expensive. But the guys are so good-looking

Ditto. And these guys do not have any Rentmen ads so yes they tend to be more expensive.

I’ve always had the fantasy of having sex in jail. But seeing this guy’s ad, I think it’s bringing it closer to reality than fantasy.

 

What’s your take on his ad?

 

Also, has anybody met him?

https://rent.men/DerrickRussel

Although he is not my type and prison sex fantasy has not even crossed my mind, I do find him interesting and I believe he fills that particular market. Each to his own. Whatever floats your boat.

My taste is simple: fried chicken!

Not totally on subject... I get a boner when I fly.

Me too!!! OMG

I will provide a review once he places his ad.

Tell him to go ahead and do it!

 

One more thing: as a straight guy will he openly show his face in his RM profile? Would that stop him from getting other jobs in the future?

I’ve told him to provide a face pic by text or email when requested. But not as a private pic on RM as members can unlock those pics anytime. Sad to say it will probably be the end of his day job if he goes through with it.

It annoys me when an escort does not include his rate in his ad. It becomes awkward when he tells you it’s $400, then you say no thanks, and he comes back with how does $350 or $300 sound. By then he’s already put me off and when I still say no thanks he says I’ve just wasted his time. You not publishing your rate is a waste of time. For me.

It’s Christmas. I should not be ranting.

He has a day job but it’s not really bringing him steady income. So far this year he earned more from escorting on the side than his regular job.

He is in LA but he prefers not to host. He is a nice guy and I think he will do well in the biz.

I know we should all be doing this but I will be enjoying life to the max in 2019. I will be doing more travels, less stress and finally start to enjoy the moolah my parents left me years ago.

Have a wonderful Christmas everyone. I am going to Sydney Australia for the New Year! So excited to see the fireworks!!

Have you ever talked to someone about the pros and cons of escorting full time with an ad in rentmen? One guy has reached out to me about doing this full time. He has been doing this on the side for most of the year. He is gay for pay and admits he’s only doing this for the money. I gave him my views on this. I wonder if any of you guys have experienced having this sort of conversation with anyone and how it ended up.

Merry Christmas everyone.

Malachi Marx is a gay for pay escort (https://rentmen.eu/Malachi_Marx/) who has some thoughts on this matter. From a 2010 "Dining with Strangers" interview with Marx:

 

"I know what to appreciate out of males but I have no desire to have sex with them for pleasure. I’ve never done anything gay if I haven’t been paid for it. I put on a game face, a facade, a character, and I make money” being gay for pay, he added.

 

I asked Malachi how much longer he intends to stay in the gay for pay world, especially with the money being so bountiful. “It’s great money and a fast lifestyle if your mind and body can handle it. But I’ll be so glad to get out of it,” he said."

 

&

 

"Malachi filmed his most recent scene for Randy Blue earlier in July, and he says this one will really be his last for them — barring the need for more funds.

 

He said it was stressful getting back in front of the camera, surrounded by blinding fluorescent lights while getting it on with another man. "It was difficult. There’s this intense heat from the lights shining on you, and four crew people are watching you, and it’s stop-go, stop-go. I had the biggest headache and I came home and I threw up. It fucked me up."

 

For Malachi, the experience brought back the lowest points about being gay for pay. “There were times when I’d come home sick, I didn’t know who I was.” He said he managed to clear his thoughts up and stay focused by concentrating on the money he’d make from a client or video. During those sessions, he’d mentally fixate on the various girlfriends he had (which his partner allowed and had often participated with) and earnings in order to get through it."

 

http://diningwithstrangers.com/the-dinners/22-gay-for-pay/

When did he become versatile/bottom?

I don’t cook anything for Thanksgiving but a friend of mine always invites me over to his place for dinner. His Filipino wife always cook a dish called pork adobo. It’s made from pork belly and I can’t get enough of it even though the fat content is high. It is an unusual dish for Thanksgiving but it is something I look forward to at least once a year.

It’s the Red Cross’ loss, not yours.

I have not seen that other thread before but I’m more thinking of a guy who is happy to see clients on the side (and quite frequently, almost as if he was doing it full time) than a guy who refuses to be seen with a client out in public. Two different things.

What do you think of guys escorting on the down low? There are pros and cons on doing it from the guy’s point of view. But if a guy is doing it quite frequently wouldn’t he be better off doing it full time?

Nice! Let us know how it works out! I might just take the plunge while he's still in NYC.

I think you should!

I guess I can understand seeing him again, and thinking right away of him having a child nearby.

 

I would say if the idea of his having a child enters your head when you are with him, do your best to concentrate on

 

1) him peeling his clothes off and the parts of his body you like

2) the hot hole he wants you to turn into a freeway tunnel for your Pelvic Prius

3) his grunts and gasps of pleasure

 

Thinking about those things right now sure drive off the thought of anything else in my mind!

We caught up today and well guess what? The idea of him having a child did enter my mind as he went down on me. For a few seconds it lingered in my mind but disappeared as soon as I saw my cock disappear deep into his mouth.

Neither of us mentioned about the child. Whew!

I am seeing him in Houston next week!

Is this a more personal relationship than you realized @topinla? After all, you are topping him a lot!

You know what @WilliamM you could be right on this. I have not thought about it that way. But I am paying him for his time so in a way it is a business relationship than a personal one.

Thank you guys for your responses. I shall heed your words and never mention it again when we see each other this weekend.

I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months now. He escorts on the down low. Hot as but gay for pay, which didn’t bother me because we usually do what I wanted to do which is topping him. I have booked to see him again this weekend but today I saw him in public. With a kid in tow. He saw me, gave me a nod and I responded with a nod. I sent him a message tonight asking him about the kid. He admits it is his and that he is co-raising it with a woman he no longer has a relationship with but that they are still friends.

When we get together we never talked about our personal lives. Just general chit chat. So now I’m a bit anxious about seeing him this weekend. I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind.

What are your thoughts guys?

Tsk, tsk. Don't you know it should be "Screw grammar if I were hiring for an hour."? (You will never impress an escort if you don't recognize the need for the subjunctive form of the verb.)

Darn it! Me fail English. Time to join the #metoo bandwagon

Don’t really know why but I find him the sexiest from this thread! He has lust written all over him.

 

If it were me, and someone pointed out that kind of mistake, I hope I'd use it to correct my ad to put me a step above my competitors.

 

Gman

Since when did we choose a particular escort over another because of grammar? Screw grammar if I was hiring for an hour.