I understand how frustrating it must have been for @savantsav to be stood up, regardless of what the reason was. However, things happen, and from your text exchanges with Gordy, I can see how apologetic he was that he couldn't make it to your date due to illness. Honestly, this in another way proves that Gordy is a genuine and sincere person, which is unfortunately not so common among providers and clients alike. I also understand that @savantsavwould like to give his honest opinion, which is one of the many reasons why CoM exists. Instead of tagging Gordy in your post, @savantsav could also characterize it as an unfortunate event that Gordy appeared profoundly apologetic for, and while this might be frustrating, you wish him the best or hope to see him again soon. Given Gordy's attitude in your text exchanges, Gordy might think this is something you guys could solve in private, and this post of yours may trigger his defense mechanism.
As someone who has been stood up, racially discriminated, and body shamed by providers, we need honest clients like @savantsavand genuine providers like Gordy. Before this post gets locked by moderators, maybe all of us should move on from this incident for the better.
ps. When you are sick and take medication like Tylenol PM, which helps you sleep, you may be knocked out for the entire day and hence not able to function in any way. That's my life in the last two weeks.