Kyle Clinton

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From all indication (reviews and various comments) he has an amazing body, but I doubt those pics are of him. He frequently changes out his pics of various muscled black men, as @coriolis888 posted earlier.

LOL, it was a good review. I don't mind sharing.

So, I rarely ever post my thoughts and always think about wanting to join in on some here and there...this particular thread is right up my alley. There are a lot of new names and faces (escorts) that I don't even know anymore, the "business" is in many ways completely unrecognizable especially how people interact now. I really despise the hook up apps...they've turned our community upside down even though meeting is easier than ever before. Unfortunately, it's killed interpersonal communication skills especially with kids who grew up with technology their entire life. Getting to my point there is something to be said about the BFE that I have enjoyed tremendously over the years since I began and that 's connecting. It was and has always been about authenticity for me personally. In my 30's as a gay man I have learned that communication and being authentic as opposed to being young and manipulative has always been the better choice. It's impossible to have a great time with anyone if you aren't enjoying the company of one another. I have always tried to extend the guys looking for an hour...because you can't truly get a valuable experience in and out (pun intended.) These encounters for me have nothing to do with past relationships. I was ALWAYS horrible at picking boyfriends out but as "Ryan" I had some of the most surprising experiences. The "how" do I prepare myself for this request has continuously evolved with age. Now, almost never do I like having conversations via email or text. If it makes a person feel more comfortable of course I am more than obliged but I would rather meet face to face in a hotel bar downstairs for a drink or in their living and start from there and if it doesn't work out well that's okay too. I think part of that is from the impersonal conversations it sometimes feels we are living in our day to day online and chat texts. If it doesn't work out in the first 5 minutes of meeting someone isn't better to just walk away and not hurt someone's feelings in my opinion...especially if there is no connection. Of course that being said we have all experienced emotionless sex and had a great one night stand. I don't pretend to be in my 20's any longer nor do I wish them back either. I love feeling comfortable in my own skin and experiencing deeper level connections much more. Sure, it can be fun every once in while but to me personally this is more enjoyable. However, one thing that lately has become taxing with the BFE are the situations when people fall in love and have to walk away. I made a commitment many years ago to myself that I would never intentionally hurt anyone with the kind of power that escorts can sometimes have over others. I wish we were all more capable of just enjoying the moment and not making such a big deal whether we can keep that person selfishly in our life beyond the present. I have always been grateful and appreciative of the small window of time that some have allowed me to occupy in for that moment whether it be a short lived or "longer" term.

I honestly CANT read posts without punctuation.... I dont know when to pause or take a breath

As did I. I have an MS in Occupational Therapy. I worked clinically for almost 15 years. I worked directly with patients and in upper management, all over the US, and in hospitals, nursing homes, rehabs, neuro units, NICUs, mental health facilities. I specialized in cognition and mental health, and spent years training other therapist to sharpen those skills. I left over 2 years ago, and I feel more successful, more fulfilled, more happy than I ever did before. I use many of the same skills that I developed as a therapist and I'm grateful for my training and time, but this feels like a much better fit for my interests and the way I want my life to go.
 
Regarding the OP's question - I find that when someone asks a question, they are really telling you something about what they believe and understand. On some level, some people might think that escorting/porn, etc are fields where you don't to be smart and/or smart people do not do this work. There isn't a reason to get offended. Be smart, and have a conversation.

Further thoughts:
I give the client the benefit of the doubt in this situation. I look at the question as a simple inquiry, and not one with a negative connotation.
Perhaps they are complimenting you in a way. The client may see your great qualities and other strengths that another career choice can highlight.

I once asked that question to an escort who was smoking hot, a great kisser, well hung and sucked, rimmed and fucked like a porn star. He was also married to a female, had two young daughters and was a Marine who had just returned from a tour in Afghanistan. He admitted he was totally closeted and fulfilled his desire to be with men by escorting. He said all his friends were either jocks or military and he had no one in his life to confide in. After we were through, had dressed and I paid him, he asked if he could hang out with me for a while and talk. We talked for an hour, three beers apiece, and then he left. Very sweet guy, unlike any escort I've ever been with, before or since.

the first post of somebody who joined the forum today......traditionally, we're skeptical of "newbie" comments like these that lavishly extol the virtues of a provider or viciously excoriate one.....
 
let's all see how this plays out.....
 
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I met him in Boca a year ago, just before he left for Australia. My experience was vastly different from the last poster’s. Chandler was a gentleman, just like his pics and the sex was great. He bottomed but I don’t recall him not being fully erect throughout. I’d say go for it!

I'm surprised you made it to 90 minutes.
 
~Boomer~

Thank you all for your reviews, including yours Scartee. After hanging out with Scartee for 1.5 hrs, I did decide that it was best that i leave. Mainly, because we agreed on an hour of my time, and my donation reflected that agreement. But partly, because I cannot make myself comfortable when someone keeps asking if “I’m okay”... I am generally always okay, but the substances you were using that kept you in the bathroom for an extended amount of time, made you paranoid, made us go over time(which I was nice enough to do, because I’m not a clock watcher) and it ultimately turned me off from your company..... Unfortunately, you can’t please everyone... and I’m okay with that.. I have patience for just about everything, but I can’t have patience for someone who is not respecting me... Ever...

I met up with Chandler Midas a week ago for a couple hours and had a great time. Was it everything I expected? No. Was it fun? Were his description and photos accurate? Was conversation and interaction on all levels rewarding...Yes. Yes. And...YES. Was our time absolute perfection? No. But, I wouldn't place that sort of expectation on any encounter...especially a first-time with anyone. He was "up and at 'em" for most of the evening (as was I) and if anyone had to retreat and say, "I need a breather", it was me...not Chandler (KingmidasXXL).
 
Scartee's side of his story is his. It may be real. It may be exaggerated or modified. But it's his as he remembers and chooses to share it. That doesn't bode well for Chandler's reputation but look at his reviews on RM (hide your proxy here in the U.S. and see full written parts of those and his replies to clients). My personal experience backs up what I read in those reviews. I now know Chandler on a personal level as an upstanding young man with a good heart and a sexy swagger (read into that as much as you want).
 
Submitting review today.

I'd add Talon Reed to the list. I'm a lot older than his father and I've never had anything but excellent experiences with him. A versatile, talented guy. I reviewed him last year. He's based in Portland, Oregon and travels quite a bit on the west coast, BUT I see that he'll be in NEW YORK January 24-31.

I am very fortunate to see a lovely hot sexy man who I trust and who trusts me. A few years ago I was kidding him about his age and he pulled out his drivers license and handed it to me -- That is trust. In the past he has cleaned my house (a paid assignment) when I was not able - He has visited me in the hospital and brought me home and got me settled and gone shopping for me for things I cannot get delivered.
 
I have met his roommates and family - he has attended happy hour and holiday parties with my friends and family. I have helped him with his primary occupation - resumes - interviews - job strategy and personal problems -- etc.
 
We are able to keep our personal and business relationships separate - One time he did not want to take the envelope because we had such a great time and I did most of the work (hehehe) I would not hear of it!
 
If something works -- Don't fuck with it! -- He was over last night and cooked and cleaned up after dinner --- we talked and had drinks as friends --
 
He was a great comfort to me -- as recently a dear FWB of 7 years with whom he was also acquainted - died prematurely a few weeks ago by his own hand. My FWB and I loved each other very much and I was fortunate that this lovely man was there last night to comfort and console me . . .
 
He has no family here and trusts me with keys to his home -- Trust is a lovely and rare thing!

Two things:
1) Put a condom in your wallet and leave it there for those moments when things "occur" with spontaneity. You'll never again have to say, we can't have sex because we don't have a condom. Most men that I know, have one with them permanently in their wallet.
 
2) You really need to understand that people with HIV are people. Real human beings. Sexy as fuck, annoying as hell, exciting, boring, but real and full of all of the same emotions as you. Maybe then, HIV won't be as terrifying, and, you can stop looking at someone and seeing the virus.
 
PrEP is a good thing and has its purposes. You and I have messaged back and forth and we've talked a lot about it, but the fear is something you should figure out how to get passed.
 
 
 

This is very unfair to him and to yourself. You have the knowledge and facts, from the CDC, from people with firsthand experience, etc... and still choose not to trust. That is very sad.

I once was a frequenter of "Sin City Books" in Portland, the details of which are not important....
 
One day I took a straight friend of mine to sample the various video delights to found there. After a while, he came out and asked what to do about a rather aggressive, persistent type that we lovingly had labeled: "Hungry Hanna"
 


I said: "Tell him your not interested."
He replied: "Did that!"
I said: "Tell him to get the hell out of your booth!"
He replied: "Did that!"
I said: "Knock him on his ass."

A while later, we hear this rather loud crack, and when we went back to the back we found the six foot or so of "Hungry Hanna" laid out in the center aisle. Hungry Hanna was done for the night and was asked to leave the premises.
 
I don't agree with this #MeToo Political Bullshit.
 
I watched Kurtis's response and felt he did an excellent first pass at setting his limits. Given who he had up and hanging on his waist, he was far kinder than I would have been.

My Question is: "Where was the bouncer, and why wasn't he doing his job?"
 
I will not speak to the Draven interaction other than point out that he's my type of man:

Short
Muscular
Latino

You don't do anything to this man that he doesn't want you do. Period. End of Statement.
I just want to know if "Blueberry Hill" is acceptable for dinner?
 

Chandler Midas and I have shared a couple of texts today. He provided his RM private pics pass code and—trust me—he has legitimate "model looks". Sculpted face, sexy bedroom eyes and full lips. Hope to meet up with him while he's in Southern California (for only 3 days) next week. If his rate is in line with the local "norm" I'd certainly take one for the team and report (also give a full review in the REVIEWS section here to help the DR members as well as maybe him). I'm submitting reviews today for JuniorNYC (which will be glowing because he's THAT good and one of the nicest men you'll ever meet) as well as two others that are long overdue. Life's been very hectic the second half of 2017 but I'm catching up...one inch at a time.

Kyle Can u messsge me Again, my messages were somehow swept when I cleaned my phone! Looking forward to meeting with u

Chandler Midas and I have shared a couple of texts today. He provided his RM private pics pass code and—trust me—he has legitimate "model looks". Sculpted face, sexy bedroom eyes and full lips. Hope to meet up with him while he's in Southern California (for only 3 days) next week. If his rate is in line with the local "norm" I'd certainly take one for the team and report (also give a full review in the REVIEWS section here to help the DR members as well as maybe him). I'm submitting reviews today for JuniorNYC (which will be glowing because he's THAT good and one of the nicest men you'll ever meet) as well as two others that are long overdue. Life's been very hectic the second half of 2017 but I'm catching up...one inch at a time.

Glad to be of help. Working in the educational field, I know being dyslexic can have its difficulties. Feel free to private message me any time if I can be of help.

Menus? Somewhat disagree. But, yes...to a point. After all, we're dealing with human beings. But even in business (outside of this one), your experience, your resume, your education, etc. are "boxes" that are checked or not depending on what you have as a professional to offer or will consider or even what you're good at. It's all about creating a "picture" in addition to photos and profile descriptions. These sorts of items can save us all a lot of time. If you're a hire who is not in to offering "role play" but that's a big part of what I'm looking for, then it saves both of us because I won't be emailing or texting you only to find out that you're not into "role play" on the job. But, yes...important to remember we're all human and treating each other with dignity and respect is vital.

This is so true. Though many are à la carte.

I recently learned the boxes you check are definitely taken into consideration when clients search in RM. @freecahill1965 knows his stuff

Many use them in the RM searching feature when searching.