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To @StraitToBeTied welcome to the forum. First off, thank you for sharing your desire and asking questions. That's the first step to a safe and sane experience. I agree with the idea that you and your girlfriend can visit a friendly bondage group or information gathering. They are open to all races and gender and personally, where I live in SoCal, there's the SoCal Bondage Club which offers events where one can explore and safely try out bondage activities with newbies and experts alike. And of course, there are escorts on RM who will be happy to perform such a service. However, I want to let you know that you must take it slow and read up on safety and making sure you're comfortable with a relative stranger or escort tying you up. Consent and being safe and sane are very important, and in no way should you feel pressured into doing something you have misgivings for later. Get your feet wet first and try the Janus society or a bondage meetup where you and your girlfriend can learn the proper resources and techniques before asking a gay guy to tie you up. I also find it admirable that you are being honest with your girlfriend and bringing her in the loop on your desires instead of trying to hide it from her. That goes a long way. Being bound and gagged by a gay guy isn't weird in the slightest, and as @Ds35mm said, it most likely roots from a desire to being taken against your will and being forced to do something out of your control (but I'm not a psychologist so please don't take my opinion as the factual truth). If you feel you want to explore, there are numerous events and resources out there that can help you explore this safely and in a good way.

The bolded part already made me suspicious. Documentaries are supposed to be informative, not over-the-top or focus on being entertaining. Also given how you refused and the director is still pushing you both to be on the documentary as well as you both are having some misgivings are signs that you shouldn't do it. Also, if you do the documentary, there is the chance that your family members will have exposure or be under more scrutiny. Sometimes anonymity or relative obscurity is the best gift you can have for a peaceful and content life, so personally, I wouldn't do it. However, that's just my two cents. You sound like you both already made your decision.

I meant faces I have seen last year. And of course, I especially love seeing @Oliver again after he so graciously opened his home and got me introduced to the event last year.

I'll be going but I'm still deciding if I go only on the pool day or come for the weekend and bunk with someone. I met a lot of new people there and I look forward to seeing old faces.

He's now back and in Palm Springs: https://rentmen.eu/RippedMuscle Damn, I'm tempted. Does anyone have a face pic? His RentMasseur profiles are gone now.

From what his profile shows now that he's coming to the West Coast, he looks more open-minded and he's gotten five reviews that all rave about him (and they don't look fake)

I think given how a few forum members have met him and how he's accepted payment for his services, I'd doubt he's still working for the police or planning entrapment. @builder boy met him and discussed him in this thread https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/mature-daddy-in-dc.152890/page-2 but he reports Steve is a friendly and wonderful guy so I think you're safe.

I have some bad news regarding Rory. I noticed his profile was down so I texted him. It turns out he's taking a long break because someone leaked his photos, ad, and videos to his father's workplace and outed him, so now he's trying to distance himself from it and he's not sure if when or if he'll ever get back to RM. I liked Rory and he was a total sweetheart and a nice, personable, and friendly guy, so it saddens me that someone revealed his stuff to his family and inner circle like that. Still, I texted him some words of encouragement and if anyone has his personal phone, wish him well and a Merry Christmas. And frankly, this is a question for anyone who can answer: if someone outs you like that, can't you sue them? Or it's not possible because it's revealing Rory made a profile for gay escorts, so it would incriminate him?

I have some bad news regarding Rory. I noticed his profile was down so I texted him. It turns out he's taking a long break because someone leaked his photos, ad, and videos to his father's workplace and outed him, so now he's trying to distance himself from it and he's not sure if when or if he'll ever get back to RM. I liked Rory and he was a total sweetheart and a nice, personable, and friendly guy, so it saddens me that someone revealed his stuff to his family and inner circle like that. Still, I texted him some words of encouragement and if anyone has his personal phone, wish him well and a Merry Christmas. And frankly, this is a question for anyone who can answer: if someone outs you like that, can't you sue them? Or it's not possible because it's revealing Rory made a profile for gay escorts, so it would incriminate him?

Feel his muscular chest, suck his nipples, worship his unconscious body. Nothing too extreme.

A good treat; George Eads from TV series CSI "Grave Danger". I loved the end bit where it shows him taking a final breath before slumping unconscious (plus George Eads is pretty cute).

@Bentley_xxl I think what you're doing is helpful in itself. You're interacting with people on the forum and showing your professional nature and getting to know people. Plus, the Palm Springs forum event is always a nice way to meet others (and I look forward to meeting you given your posts and how some of the forum members give you a thumbs up). Just continue to network where you can and you'll get there. Don't be discouraged.

We already have something like that. It's called "fan-fiction". Seriously, some of the fanfic writers write smuttier and more eye-popping stuff than a lot of Playboy articles and stories, maybe even more than the Twilight novels.

Archive of our Own (AO3). They have some of the best erotic fanfiction of tV shows and movies and every category and book you can practically think of. Try two of my favorite ships, Sherlock Holmes/John Watson and James Barnes/Steve Rogers: https://archiveofourown.org/tags/James%20%22Bucky%22%20Barnes*s*Steve%20Rogers/works https://archiveofourown.org/tags/Sherlock%20Holmes*s*John%20Watson/works Just look through the "PWP/Porn without Plot" tags. Happy reading!

And apparently he's reverted back to his old profile: https://rent.men/DocRock Anyone try him recently?

And some more: Hot gay bear Brad Kalvo himself on Film911: From the defunct gay erotica Bound and Gagged Magazine:

True, but there's something about a strong and muscular man being chloroformed into unconsciousness and struggling and grunting while the bad guys holding a rag over his nose and mouth and then the hero being helplessly unconscious and completely at his captor's mercy... To me, it's sort of the intriguing part of BDSM: having a muscular man being submissive to you and unable to do anything to escape?

His name is Rory and he was previously taking over the old JesseJaymes' profile while the old JesseJaymes had to take care of some personal stuff with family and is taking a break: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/jesse-jaymes-friend.151273/ He now goes under a new profile separate from Jesse Jaymes: https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/rory-the-british-muscle-god.152485/ PM me if you like but he's a sweetheart and looks like his pictures. Note that for first meetings, there are some limits, but from the forum members who had repeat business with him, he eases up considerably.

Umm...no, just a fetish. According to the forum board: Discussion of fetishes and stuff, not necesarily things you try or dream of doing with escorts. I don't believe I said anything of the sort...

Some more delicious handsome men being chloroformed: From TV's Knight Rider Plush Ride with David Hasselhoff: From Dart in Academy Men:

Not enough love for seeing beautiful men captured and chloroformed so I thought I'd post this thread: From TV's Charlie's Angels "Angels on Ice" episode (the guy actually put up a good struggling scene): From Film911 "Mike Goes To The Wrong Clinic": From BestDeaths George the Coach: From SteelMillMedia's Examination (this was the first time I saw Chad Brock and wow, did he really put some acting in this): Feel free to add on to this thread.

@builder boy What was his demeanor like? Is he nice, a sweetheart? Feel free to PM me the details of your session and I look forward to your review.

Hmmm, then perhaps it's better with Rory. With the first Jesse Jaymes, it was a mix of people who liked him or disliked him, but with Rory, everyone's who had him has enjoyed their sessions with him from what I've seen on his reviews and on this board. And holy sh!t, I looked at his profile. He's booked solid in practically every city he's visiting! I don't think he'll be hurting for money anytime soon (even with the cut to his handler).

Try asking Rory if he can give a discount for multi-hour. Although he was a little pricey with me, I did enjoy our session. The downside is that it'll take me a while to save up for the next one. And actually, this raises a good question: to the people who hired the first Jesse Jaymes, how much was his hourly rate?

@builder boy Cool! Let us know how your weekend goes with him. Also, when I asked him, he said if I do a multi-hour, he'll drop his rate from $400 to $300, so if anything, there's that. I think you could negotiate. And it turns out he's coming to Palm Springs in November, so who knows? Maybe he'll be open to a lower rate if you ask him.