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I've never joined OnlyFans so please excuse me for this question: how does it work? If I joined Tyler and Ace's OF page, if I made a suggestion of a video for a certain fetish, would they do it? Or is it more of a access their content and they choose to add whatever material they like sort of like Patreon? Tyler and Ace, I have to admit that if you two can't come to SoCal, seeing you on OF is tempting.

Thought I might share this with anyone who has a particular fetish in the title: https://film911.net/ This site has a few nude clips but they're on clips4sale, and some of the fetishes aren't my cup of tea like the stuffing, vore, and hypnotism, but what I like about the site are the various models they get. They got Brian Bonds, Ace Era, Mason Lear, Brad Kalvo (I ordered a recent custom with Brad Kalvo being chloroformed, bound and gagged, and subjected to CPR), Derek Parker, and to my surprise, they got a special guest coming at the end of the month to do videos and customs: Leo Giamani. Enjoy!

I checked several sources and this one spoke up the possibility of GHB and the possibility that Doran George had a cold at the time: https://www.hollywoodreporter.com/features/death-a-hollywood-sex-dungeon-how-a-top-agency-executives-mummification-ritual-ended-tragedy-1123815 This is scary and it sounds like Skip Chasey took the necessary precautions, but this just reinforces my desire to never allow any drugs whatsoever during a session. But this actually made me realize something: if you have a session with an escort, when you say "no drugs", how can you know if the escort is clean or took something before seeing you? You could ask if they took anything beforehand, and if they tell you "no", then it's kind of hard to tell if they're lying or telling the truth. In the S&M rules, besides consent, can someone clarify what is the stance of drugs during play? (I'm pretty sure I read it's "no", but I want to double check).

Um...I'm glad he didn't die either. I'm not sure if my post implied otherwise...unless I somehow came off in my post as Norman Bates.

What communication snafu are you referring to? The safety signal to tap out he didn't take or do, otherwise I would have stopped immediately. And when he asked to stop, I did. And he wanted to try choking, and though it wasn't my cup of tea, I tried it and was as gentle as I could because I didn't want to crush his windpipe.

I can only speak of my experiences with several wonderful escorts who have trusted me, but I think it can be hot if done safely. However, for reasons like being afraid to permanently damage the person's voice box or larynx, I'd rather use a pillow for breath play. A little story with one escort who agreed to my terms... What I always do is first let the escort know what I would do for breath play, and inform them I know CPR. Any who are willing, I ask if they are allergic to any medications in case I need to resuscitate and call 911 and an ambulance (no close calls, so knock on wood). Surprisingly, the escort commented that was the first time a client ever asked that information of him (which surprised me; you'd think that would be a common question to ask a sub). And I would never do it until an escort passes out. And I adamantly tell the escort to have a safety contact beforehand (likewise with me, I have a contact I text before and after the session). This is the one time I did choking. The escort asked me to do it on him because he wanted to try it (in return for being smothered with a pillow). So what I did was after tying him spreadeagled on the bed, I gently placed my thumb across his throat and pressed down gently. Believe it or not, the escort was actually being choked despite such small pressure on his throat and he tapped out once he felt the high. I was surprised at how quick his face turned red, but we always took a break in between and I made sure to stop when he gave the signal. So yes, choking can be hot, but you can do it without doing wrapping your hands around someone's entire neck extremely like Homer Simpson does to Bart. A simple thumb pressing gently on a certain area would do the trick. And of course, for breath play, I'd prefer the pillow so after a few rounds of choking and me worshipping his bound body so he could get his heart rate down, I got the pillow. With the escort who wanted to be choked, I held a pillow over his face and asked him to struggle and moan underneath the pillow (a sign he wasn't unconscious - otherwise if he went still and silent, that was a warning sign). What happened was the escort was a bit dubious that a pillow could even be used for breath play (he wouldn't be gagged so he could still use his nose and mouth), but he obliged and for several rounds, he did that, me pressing a pillow over his face for thirty seconds in intervals while he groaned and mock struggled as I sat on him. Then something surprisingly happened on the third round. After ten seconds of groaning and wiggling, he stopped suddenly. At first I was confused until the escort began writhing and moving his head hard against the pillow as if trying to free his face. I held the pillow firm and I could tell he began struggling for real, his body actually jerking up and down underneath me. It was at that moment I could tell the difference between his play struggling and panicking struggling as he made soft gasps under the pillow while he tried to writhe his head faster which encouraged me to press the pillow more against his face. He knew the safety signal, but he didn't tap out. Once the thirty seconds was done, I removed the pillow and the escort actually gasped in air. He asked to stop, and I did, but afterwards, the escort told me he had never been smothered like that before and he was surprised how effective the pillow was. After he left, the next day, I gave the obligatory text to check how he was feeling and if he had any chest pains or headaches which he told me he didn't and he was glad I was checking up on him. So for escorts, trust and make sure you show them that you won't abuse that trust and take all precautions and don't do it alone.

Happy Birthday Mike gaite! And can someone tell me who this handsome DILF is?

Good to hear from you Juan! And I kick myself for not seeing Thor when I had a chance. Trust me, being older is a turn on for some of us, so some of us would love to see you as a "fully grown man". Best wishes.

I actually had a great session with Jack Dixon who can be very submissive: https://rentmen.eu/JACKDIXON Give him a look and see if he can meet your needs.

This. I'm not sure how much he'd be willing to do if his orientation is "straight", but then again, sometimes, just muscle worship is pretty great too.

@Funguy I don't know what to say that can help, but... *gives you a hug*

Actually, no I didn't. He was going to come to Los Angeles in May, but then he dropped it. I e-mailed him asking if he was ever planning to come to Los Angeles, but I got no response. You might have better luck though. If you do see him, I hope it goes well. He's yummy.

Agreed! I hope everyone has fun and enjoying the nice weather! Maybe someday, I'll come one year and see what it's like.

Bumping this thread. David Donavon is coming to my neck of the woods. Has anyone had any recent experience with him? You can send a PM if you like, thank you. https://rentmen.eu/DavidDonavon

*hugs* Tristan, I wish you well on your move and am glad that you'll be closer to California. I hope this encourages your Dad to come to Vegas. I take it he would prefer Vegas as opposed to Palm Springs or Florida as warmer alternatives than CT? Because those are as just as nice.

RIP. Let's honor his legacy by learning, reading something about science, explore and create. Don't know what something is but want to know it? Let's read and learn, together. Thank you for your contributions to humanity, Dr. Hawking.

You have my condolences. I am sorry to hear of the stress and pain you have to go through. You loved him and he loved you. Remember that, OK?

I guess it shows we're a good bunch who care about the escorts here.

It looks like they're from North Carolina. If they ever come to SoCal, Los Angeles, I'd be interested. Damn, they're both fine.

Happy Birthday!

Bumping this because I just found out this guy on BoundGuys.com. Woof! http://imageshack.com/a/img922/3170/yrQvLf.jpg He's definitely my type, but when I checked RM on St. Louis, nothing. Does anyone know if he still escorts or if he retired or if's under a different name/city?

Actually, thank you. I didn't consider that. And I don't want the escort to be exhausted.

Actually, I'm also interested in how to fly in an escort out of state. So I take it when you buy the plane ticket, you pay for it but put the ticket under the escort's name when you settle on a time to fly in and out, correct? And have the ticket sent to their e-mail correct? Then is there any advice I should know about buying the airfare the ticket besides looking at the refund policy in case the escort needs to cancel? Is it reasonable to buy a fairly priced ticket that does a layover as opposed to non-stop due to needing to save money? Or would an escort take offense to that?

Funny you mention Montreal; I found Marco and have been inquiring about him: https://rentmen.eu/Gymmarco He's former porn star Marc Vallint/Marco Vallant and he's returning to porn as a bottom for his debut at Men.com. I talked with him and he's very polite and prompt and lists as versatile. I haven't tried him yet because I've been trying to see if he's arranging a visit to SoCal, and it looks like he might! But from my talks with him, he's sweet and he's got muscles and chest hair galore. Talk with him and see if you click.

Thanks for that. I never would have realized. And yep, I don't care how old he is. He's a hot muscle bear and that's what got my attention.