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beachboy

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  1. I have no moral issues with hiring at all. The kind of guys I'm attracted to are unlikely to be attracted to me so I hire someone who is 'my type' & provides the service I'm looking for.

     

    I tend to repeat book guys I've had a good time with before and so far things have worked out pretty well with only minor disappointments along the way.

     

    In many ways my times with providers have been some of the most honest 'relationships ' I've had-no one is being coerced or lied to & the boundaries & expectations are known by both sides.

     

    I'm very careful who I book, treat them with respect, don't haggle, always happy to tip good service & admire them for who they are & the service they provide. I can't wait for the world to return to some form of normality so that I can resume meeting up with certain awesome guys again ;)

  2. The thing is when we hire we naturally choose guys we're attracted to & who are offering what we're looking for.

    Best scenario is when we meet up we find he's just as hot as we thought & as friendly as we want. So we end up butt naked having hot sex with a guy who pushes all our buttons.

     

    The danger is that as sentient beings our feelings can so easily go overboard & we can read all sorts of meanings into a situation that are not real as we're indulging in intimate

    acts with the type of guy we would choose as a partner in a different situation.

     

    My solution has been to allow myself to be 'in love' with the guy during the session but after my customary 'thank you' text the next day to remind myself that he has a whole life which does not include me, to respect him by contacting him only when I want to make another booking & enjoy his services again.

     

    One exception was a guy I really liked. We had life interests in common & he gave me his real name, his private phone no. & was quite happy to have occasional text chats between meets & revealed many details of his life. This was a guy I could easily have gone overboard for but my sensible head made sure I kept things friendly but not too friendly and so things never got awkward & meets with him we're always spectacular.

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