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Maybe we'll see a bunch of big towns and small cities become new gay meccas - which might help change some antigay hostile state governments.

Yeah I do worry about these men coming inside. They wear masks when I open up the door. It's a situation I have never liked but because we are both horny, I don't judge him for any of it. If I could, I'd invite four or five hot hunks in here myself. I think I had COVID when it first came around and he's already had it.

I'd love to go there!

I have a very very common name too but strangely enough there were very few boys named that in my high school. It might be that in some states the names are more common or less common.

I do know that there was a boy Harvey had spoke to from Altoona, Pennsylvania and they show this in the 2008 film Milk. So it seems like a lot of small town boys heard of him and thought to move to San Francisco. Did the gay population of San Francisco undergo a rapid increase after Harvey's assassination?

Lucky, May I ask how it made you feel when you moved there on that horrific day? Could you share with us why you had initially decided to move to California? Did you live in a small town before? Thanks

I agree... I derailed it.

Thought I'd make one of these...

He's a very beautiful person but I'm not attracted to him that way. He's just a friend.

“If a bullet should enter my brain, let that bullet destroy every closet door.”

"Is San Francisco really that gay anymore?" there's the question lol because P-town isn't as gay as I'd like.

I don't know. Never been to San Francisco but I always wondered what it was like... that's today, I have no idea what it was like in the 1970s.

Jean-Luc is sexy.

He had a bit of a transformation with his stylings... i wonder if it was to help get elected in what was still a fairly homophobic city (just as all cities were). 1973 1978? Either way, he had a very classic, very dignified face.

For me these would have been the top 5 finalists: Justin- My mother loved Justin Hayward and wanted to call me this but my father said no. Nolan- Just in general a really nice well-rounded name. Joshua- Classic and yet sounds still modern. Jason- Strong, elegant. Kyle- Just cool. Here are the most common names from 1985, the year I was born: (You can change the year with the drop-down menu) https://www.behindthename.com/top/lists/united-states/1985

I only wish he could have lived. I wonder how he would have changed America even more. I wonder what he would have done during the AIDS crisis. I bet he would have become the national spokesman for gay men in America in the 80s and 90s... and matured into an elder statesman type by 2000. He was cut down too soon and even in his short time as a national figure, he made such an impact. LOVE HIM. The Times of Harvey Milk documentary is the only documentary that actually made me weep.

that and if I ever win the lottery too lol

Thanks guys I did speak to my roommate/best friend and he said he would try his best to tell the boys to leave asap. He's a dear friend who might have a sex addiction and who am I to judge, right? I'm as much of a slut as he is I suppose...well, kinda lol.

I love my roommate to death but this place has officially become a whorehouse. I can't keep track of all these guys he brings over (sometimes 4 or 5 in a single day or night) so he can keep on busting a nut (he has four balls). Some of these boys are common gutter trash --- bitchy, mean, and act like they own the place. I'm letting my friend stay with me free of rent charge because he lost his job. Have any of you ever had this kind of situation with a friend or roommate?

It must be why I like Tennessee Williams and William Inge so much. lol

One 3/4 experience, and about five minuscule flirtations with the male body -- not a lot and yet I still feel like a tramp. But yes, I am the very definition of sexual repression.

People who'd like to learn about U.S. history and politics.

You know me neither really. Some songs are good but it's not my favorite which is surprising because it's a landmark show for LGBTQ.

Wow that's amazing dedication!