Just a few thoughts I had during my nearly ten year stay here:
No spring - it goes right into summer - and the fall is getting shorter and shorter every year. The weather tends towards the extreme --- Pennsylvania, my home state, had much more moderate temperatures in my opinion. An old friend of mine once said that Boston was the city with the worst dressed people. I'll refrain from accusing it of that, but in the areas that I've lived, people are struggling to just make ends meet. The Bernie Sanders look is very popular here too. The general population is much more liberal and much more Democratic than in Pennsylvania, where I would say most of the older people are very conservative. I have met a good share of Republicans here though and they've been very vocal about expressing their views. (Might be because I don't limit who I talk to about politics with just people who share my views.) Parts of it are dominated by the colleges (of which the Boston area has possibly the most in the nation taken together)... lots of college students. I never went to college here so I really don't know what the atmosphere is like, but back in the early 2010s, long before COVID, there was a lot of activity at night. As far as the men are concerned, most I come into contact with are older and have a worn-out, exhausted look about them. There's a lot of people up here who speak in foreign languages and more immigrants than even Pennsylvania has. I think it's wonderful and adds to the diversity but it can be overwhelming for someone from a more rural, 90% white background. I would argue that Boston is not a "gay city" - but then again, what cities are anymore? Even the exalted San Francisco I have heard from a few men is beginning to lose a little of its gayness. Boston has a very good medical center for LGBTQ (Fenway Health) but it has no community center and the one gay bar I went inside was as dead as a doornail - I mean, even the bartender was asleep (j/k). Ironically very few Boston Markets in Boston. And lastly, no Sheetz. ?
What about your thoughts about where you live? How does it compare and contrast to other places you've lived?