My prime escort sprung a 3 some on my as a surprise gift. I posted on this already and it was sensational. It can be an amazing experience as I had or I can see where it doesn't work well. For starters I would think u would need to be versatile and open to your own preferences as well as tbeirs. I like spontaneity and with a 3 some that's what makes it special. Go for it if u trust your escort and a partner he chooses.