bashful

These last few years, the only ones that have seen me nude are a few escorts, and a few masseurs. I've never really been overly self-conscious despite not wanting all the pounds I have, and wanting more inches. I guess I've always been around nudity. I had all brothers. My high school swim class was all nude, and we all showered together before going to the pool area. As a kid, we'd vacation in northern Michigan, and stayed at a cabin where the only place to bath was the sauna. Dad and my brothers would take a sauna together every few days. Women had their own time. When in northern Sweden, took a sauna with 2 uncles, and the boyfriend of one uncle's daughter. It's the quickest way any guy will learn that not all men are created equal. Accept what you can't change.

Adding to the above that annoy me too. Grocery stores (not sure if it's Illinois, or local suburb/county) that hire cashiers under 21 year, who are unable to ring up adult beverages. You have to wait while they get on the phone to page someone to come over to just move the bottle across the scanner. Now, I look for the older cashiers and go in their line, unless I see a cashier who is a hottie. And, related to the above, (again not sure if it's Illinois, or local suburb/county), but annoyed when all of a sudden, each and every person, regardless of age, is asked for ID when buying an adult beverage. Then I have to shuffle through all the cards in my wallet to find the driver's license. I'm over 60, and while waiting for my groceries to be bagged, the women behind me, who appeared to be over 70, was asked for an ID. One day I said I didn't have it. They still sold it to me. The worst was when Target wanted to scan my drivers license. I said I no longer wanted to buy the bottle of wine. Haven't shopped at a Target for years.

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I'm getting some pictures in my mind.

I think bathing in the evening is more popular than most think. My parents (European) always did, and I, many times, prefer it, and a roommate in college always did. Said he wanted to wash off the day.

So long as you never venture closer than afar.

Sounds like a wonderful trip. That area is on my bucket list. Safe travels.

I take it you recommend him.

Before I retired, I had a suspicion a guy I used to work with hired. However, he played the corporate game, so never fully trusted him.

LOL... It sounds like a Rodney Dangerfield line.

That's why I stick to the poolside bar.

I believe he is one in the same. His rentmasseur ad has a pic in the same blue jock strap. https://rentmasseur.com/MaxCeuro https://rent.men/MaxJock I often look at his ad(s) and wonder whether to hire as a masseur or escort. And, those nipples look hot wired.

I agree. The condo was paid for since 2005. I recently bought a new car, and had a terrible time with the concept of taking out a loan after paying cash for the last 3 cars. However, loan interest was only 2.75%, and 401k has been doing better lately. Plus, my credit union is already paying over 2% on cds. Have a 5 year loan, and the payments are just deducted out of my savings account.

Social Security worksheet was my error. I didn't seen the next line on the worksheet of an additional line to include in the calculation, so didn't figure in that income. Took me three for four days going over the return to realize I made the error.

Happens all too often. Neighbors across the street, and close friends of my parents.

Not sure to whom of my friends I would confide my hiring. We've all know each other for a long time. Not to sell them short, but I think they would be judgmental. Even my few gay friends, one of whom I've thought about telling, but have decided not to. As @MartyB says, I honestly enjoy my secret life at the moment.

Saw the updated ad. Sounds very responsive. I like that.

LOL. I almost spit out my sip of wine reading this.

Good to know. Thanks.

No, I don't think he's a bear, I was referring to the "I Am Into" list in his ad. It doesn't indicate he likes bears as clients.

Beautiful man. Alas, not into bears.

Saw him again yesterday evening. Very nice experience. Think I'll go for a three-peat next time he's in town.

Sounds as if it was still a good experience for you. Nice to know not much has changed (lol "still crooked"). Didn't think much would have changed. It remains one of the favorite vacations for reasons beyond just the destination.

Good for you. I got a bill from the IRS end of last month for over $300. My mistake.

As a client, I'm new to all this. Only hired my first time in 2015. I'm curious to see responses.