Just Chuck

@Alabastrine Welcome to CompanyOfMen! I would love to hear some of your thoughts and opinions in several of the threads throughout the forum. I'm looking forward to seeing you post more here!

I’ve been told that a super fun game is to sexually tease the caged guy. Move your face down, kiss and lick his balls, even take the cage into your mouth while you mix in dirty talk. And as he becomes more aroused and straining within the cage . . . then, remind him that he is caged and just there for use as a bottom.

I’m a slutty, bisexual, former martial arts teacher and former wrestler and former firefighter/medic. I’ve been touched all over in both sexual and non-sexual ways countless times. Whenever, TSA agents need to pat me down, it’s absolutely no-big-deal for me. I’m always just smiling and saying “just go ahead and get it done” while they, hesitantly and embarrassed, keep repeating that we can move somewhere private. I’ve been amused a couple times when the millimeter wave scanner flagged my wrist when I was in a short sleeve shirt or flagged my ankle when I was wearing shorts and sandals. They went through the motions of patting down my bare skin to comply with procedures.

2025 updates and for non-DFW locals: The View didn't last very long and closed permanently. TMC is a bar named The Mining Company it's right in the gayborhood. Marty's is also a bar kind of on the edge of the gayborhood. I have a hearing loss that makes loud dance clubs less pleasant for me. (I'll wear clear silicone earplugs when I do go into them.). The Hidden Door is a really fun neighborhood bar were you might encounter literally anyone. It's like a much friendlier version of the Mos Eisley Cantina on Tatooine. Last time I was there, they only accepted cash payments.

@samhexum Thank you! Those recipes look really good! I've been meaning to try out the anti-inflammatory diet but just hadn't put for the effort yet to make it happen.

I didn't like cum for a long time. Then, I suddenly seemed to have a switch thrown and I love it now. I have surprised some partners who just took a load in their mouths when I immediately asked them to kiss me. That's a fun reaction to see.

I agree about Embassy Suites. They are great places to meet and host. Having the bedroom separated from the hallway by the small living room makes it feel more private. The big atrium space gives me a place to meet and greet before we go upstairs. If the meeting is in the later afternoon or evening, then the bar and "manager's reception" give us a place to pause a grab a drink before or after the meeting.

Don’t use poppers if you use either blood pressure medicine or erectile dysfunction medicine. I’ve heard that combination can be deadly.

Natural Harvest: Collection of Semen Based Recipes Cookbook I’ve heard of this cookbook but never actually looked at a copy. Read some of the reviews. They are fun.

I certainly can't argue with that.

I like to swallow and just keep on going with the sucking until they are completely drained or they “tap-out” from the intensity.

I listened to a podcast from someone who was familiar with law enforcement in New York City (it might have been Preet Bharara, but I can't remember for sure.) who said that the NY District Attorney's office for NYC had an entire office for sex crime and a group within that, that handled all the prostitution cases. He said that they exercise a LOT of prosecutorial discretion and rarely prosecute for cases between consenting adults unless there's evidence of trafficking, it's embedded into another criminal activity (mob, drugs, sex-for-stolen goods, etc.), or it's impacting other people. I don't think that priests make a lot of money and have a lot of disposable income. I'm guessing there's a financial crime that may be attached to the investigation. Maybe, "Where'd the church's embezzled money go? Well, he spent it for sex."

In engineering school, I had a professor who actually forced us to perform thermodynamic and fluid dynamics calculations in imperial units, just to force us to do the unit juggling that those types of measurements require. Then, at the end of the semester, he'd let us switch back to SI units and it was all MUCH easier. I really grew to appreciate the metric system in his classes.

Man, he was super sweet,personable, and friendly when I met him.

How could I have left out mentioning awesome performances by Murray Head or Alice Cooper as King Herrod. Or Carl Anderson or Brandon Dixon as Judas.

I'm re-watching the 1973 version of "Jesus Christ Superstar" this evening (I'm not religious, I just love the show). It's one of my favorite musicals. I love the music. I own three versions of the soundtrack: the stage performance from London featuring Ian Gillian (Deep Purple's lead singer) as Jesus, the 1973 film version, and the 2018 version featuring John Legend and Sarah Barielles. I think I've seen eight to ten versions of live stage performances. I also love the soundtrack to "Chess". But I've never seen a performance. "Cats" has some awesome songs and it's held together by some themes, but not really a storyline (that I can tell). Likewise for "Phantom of the Opera" or "Moulan Rouge". Love 'em or hate 'em, tell me about your relationship with musicals.

Hands have ten fingers that can each move in intelligent and controlled ways. Hands are strong enough to deadlift or do pull-ups but gentle enough to pick up a feather or an egg. Hands are more mobile than any mouth, anus, or vagina. Unless it's masturbation, the person touching with their hands doesn't have their brain distracted by a flood of other sexual sensation and can use their brain to control and plan every second of what's going on. (That's the biggest advantage of a good handjob, I think.)

Artie - The Taoist Masseur on Twitter has amazing handjob technique

My Samsung washing machine will let me select up to FIVE rinse cycles. That's a lot of rinsing.

I had a friend who was looking into that "breasturant" business model. He learned that Hooters, Twin Peaks and the other chains like that don't have "waiter or server" jobs. They advertise and hire "models who serve" which allows them to consider looks during hiring. Tallywackers was a restaurant in Dallas, Texas that was intended to be the male equivalent of Hooters. Tallywackers featured male waiters in tight hotpants and often shirtless. The restaurant closed in August 2016. I never managed to go there during the short time that they were open.

I had to search BNWO. Urban Dictionary gave me this: BNWO stands for Black New World Order. A fetishistic term related to BDSM, specifically Race play. Wherein black supremacy over all races (especially white) is fetishized. It may be incorporated into other fetish/kink plays such as cuckolding, sissy play, BBC, alpha-beta, erotic humiliation play etc. Usually centred around black masculinity and the underlying stereotypes, mischievously, the BBC/Mandingo stereotype. Kink scene : Sissification/feminization kinkster 1 (Black male) : submit to the BNWO white boi, submit to my superior BBC and let me make you my sissy bitch princess. kinkster 2 (White male) : Yes my black king, I've realised my true place in world, BNWO is the future. I want to worship that BBC. by Johnwick98 August 2, 2021 I'm not familiar with this kink. But, is that the right description?

Thank you all for the sensitive and well-thought-out replies. I'm glad that I asked and got your thoughts before doing anything.

Occasionally I’ve stumbled across or been referred to a masseur who doesn’t advertise at all or doesn’t advertise as anything but strictly therapeutic but provides a sensual or erotic massage. There should be a way for us to: Share contact information for those masseurs here, and Help the Under-the-Radar masseurs stay as underground as they want. Maybe just list a city, state, and year last seen BUT NO NAME OR CONTACT INFORMATION? Then other members who are looking for a massage in a town where the advertised massage selection is minimal or nonexistent can reach out to whoever posted about the city via direct message here and keep the info out of view for most. What do you think?

I was going to visit ABQ a few weeks ago. I texted him and he replied that he was very busy and making some big changes currently and couldn't book an appointment. He gave me another masseur's name and number and recommended him. My short text exchange with him left me a positive impression. Then, a blizzard cancelled my trip. I'll try again in early springtime. The other masseur that he recommended doesn't advertise as on RentMasseur or MasseurFinder. If you want, I'll send you a link to his contact info.