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US speed skater Jordan Stolz is really good looking.

A few years ago, I had a memory pop back into my head of my first male celebrity crush. IMDB was able to give me the exact air-date for . . . The Six Million Dollar Man S3:E17, “The Secret of Bigfoot: Part 2”. There was a scene where Steve Austin (Lee Majors) was lying down and wearing only a towel. I was stunned. I remember actually feeling something and inwardly thinking, “What the hell was that!” Only I was nine years old and didn’t curse back then.

For a boyfriend experience that I’m going to hire for, I do expect the guy I hire to be attractive enough that I would date him in a non-paying relationship. If he arrives and is less attractive than that, it’s all a matter of degree and what else is in the totality of circumstances. If he quoted a very low rate and seems enthusiastic to try to deliver a good experience, maybe I’ll go through with it. I’ve hired very good looking people who delivered very poor performances and I think. I’d rather have a “we try harder” less-attractive date. If they advertised a skillset more than a look, I might go through with it. Someone who primarily advertises as an erotic masseur (on whatever platform) or as a BDSM dom or sub, or some other specific skillset like “the best, longest-lasting, edging oral you've ever experienced” might get my business in spite of the look.

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AC powered models are MUCH more powerful than battery operated models. The original Hitachi Magic Wand is the gold standard. A plug in motor speed controller that will let you take the RPM speed of the wand from slow and gentle up to full power is a great inexpensive addition. A lot of people find the full-power setting of AC models to be too much. With a variable speed controller and an AC wand, you get the whole range.

I’m seeing some internet buzz that US men’s figure skater Ilia Malinin will be a potential star to keep an eye on. YouTube clip of a recent winning performance.

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If I’m not sure about rates, I tell a provider that I plan to pay cash and want to make sure to swing by the ATM and bring the right amount. It doesn’t sound like haggling. It heads off any unexpected upcharges during the session.

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Has anyone here had any experience with Male Massage by JD It looks like his home-base is Lubbock, TX and that’s within a day-trip from me. RentMasseur ad MasseurFinder ad Instagram page

I think a lot of incidents of that are simply reading comprehension and website design. A lot of clients are probably so focused on the photos that they simply don’t pay much attention to the rates section before they reach out. Having a background in safety and human error, I’ll say: people (even smart and well-read people) just don’t take in very much of what they read even when it’s clearly presented. The mobile version of the site makes you actively click on “show rates” to even see if the masseur lists them or shows “ask” for every category. When there’s a range of prices, I really like it when a masseur either states those or states that there are “add-ons” or “options” available.