Just Chuck

Ever since the Bill Cosby stories broke, I've been puzzled about the motivation of a man who is a serial-date-rape-drug attacker. A celebrity like Cosby or Combs can get laid. Even elderly Cosby (who might not have groupies that think of him as a sex symbol anymore) could get young starlet wannabes to put out by dangling career opportunities in front of them . . . "my agent could get you a reading for a part if I asked him to . . . " Either of these celebrities could afford high-end escorts without any trouble. Most rape is an act of violence and malice rather than lust: "I hate you so much that I am going to even take away your autonomy over the interior of your body and your right to choose your sexual activity." I guess maybe the date-rape-drug gives the attacker the ability to take that autonomy away from their victim without leaving the signs of physical violence and where the victim becomes an unreliable witness due to the intoxication?

@pubic_assistance Thank you!

Caring Bodywork By Scott I'm not sure whether he's based out of Texas or NYC. When I google his phone number, it hits Seattle and LA too. I will appreciate any information about him or experiences with him.

I am often disappointed that gay masseurs don't spend very much (actual muscle massaging vs teasing . . . not that I dislike teasing there) time on glutes. That's usually the one area of my body that most needs a therapeutic massage and where I carry a lot of tension.

I read that he was using beverages to deliver the date rape drug and dissolving it into baby oil and coming up with ways to apply it where it would absorb through their skin.

If there's a cluster of cities relatively close to each other, I think I've seen some providers make a circuit of them. Here in Texas, I see providers move frequently between Dallas/Ft. Worth, Austin, San Antonio, and Houston. Maybe add an occasional extension to Oklahoma City, Tulsa, and Albuquerque onto that. If you own a car that might be a lot more workable than flying.

The narrative on their ads really does matter to me. I've certainly scrolled right past several men who's profile has less than a dozen words, or goes on crazy rants, or reads like it was written by randomly banging on a keyboard.

That membership cost knocks out a lot of out-of-town customer base. I don't think very many people would buy a $120 membership for a club in a city they visit only occasionally. I don't see it on their Facebook page but if I remember correctly from an older page of theirs, they are BYOB to avoid a bunch of liquor license rules and to allow their fully nude dance nights. And, they had relatively late-in-the-evening opening hour times.

When I worked in New Mexico, the federal government property had ancient cliff dwellings that were really small (not man-made) caves with (man-made) adobe brick walls that closed them in except for a small entrance. These were not on land accessible to the public and you might find little artifacts like pot shards just lying around the ground. I'm not sure how old they were, but I'm sure they were pre-European-contact. They might have been really ancient.

Face and overall physique are bigger turn-ons than plumbing for me. Although, I actually prefer cocks in the middle part of the size bell-curve. I've never disqualified someone for having too-small of a cock. I have spotted some "oh hell no" giant cocks. And the overall physique that I like most is more "guy-next-door, healthy, athletic-but-not-too-beefy." I really look for clean-cut looking guys who are articulate. Facial hair or a hairy body won't disqualify someone, but I prefer clean-shaven and light-hairy, smooth, or shaved.

You might check out Austin Naked Yoga Austin Naked Yoga Meetup.com page Austin Naked Yoga home page They have non-yoga events too.

Does anyone know of a Dallas or DFW masseur who offers prostate massage (not topping, just massage)? DM me if it needs to be a private message to avoid risk for masseurs with licenses.

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@CENTHOTMAN Thank you for the clear information.

I Unfortunately no. I never found one to try.

I am more of a side than not myself. I will do anal, but not very often. He’s such a good looking guy, I’d love to exchange oral with him.

I’m curious about him too. Looks like he is a side. Too bad that Rent.men doesn’t have that as a searchable position option and he had to list himself as a bottom.

Website: Dragonfly (clothing optional) Campground Texas FaceBook page with quite a bit more content: FaceBook - Dragonfly Texas Israel Luna who runs, several gay men's event series (ranging from steamy to very erotic) in DFW recently opened Dragonfly Campground. It's clothing optional. It's just a little on the Texas side of the Oklahoma-Texas border about 1.5 hours from Dallas's Oak Lawn Gayborhood and about 10-minutes from the Oklahoma border. It sort of "soft-opened" this year as much of it is under construction or to-be-developed. I haven't been there (yet) but I'm thinking about it.

In the last years of her life, my mother had dementia and Alzheimers. It was actually what I'll now call a blessing for me. She and I had never gotten along well or easily until that time when the hostility was the first thing to go. She lived in a nursing home. The nursing home would open up to kids for halloween and the staff and residents would give out candy. I strongly encourage parents of young kids to call local nursing homes and see if they are doing anything for halloween for kids. The residents LOVED seeing the kids come in and it was good for the kids to see how that part of their community lives.

In the mid-late 1970's my parents would just send my elementary school-aged butt out the door in small-town Oklahoma and just tell me to be home before bedtime to go Trick or Treating. .

I saw a really neat version of this last year. All the local law enforcement, emergency medical service and fire departments had response vehicles staged around one parking lot of the local community college. Responders staffed each vehicle to hand out both candy and public education information to the kids and their parents. I was a professional firefighter and deputy fire marshal long ago. I would have loved to staff a truck for an event like that! In that uniform, the smiling gaze of kids always made me feel ten feet tall.

I saw TwinkTime this past weekend. It was a great experience. He looks great (just like his photos.) He was easy to book with. His erotic massage session is both a real massage and erotic throughout. He was very easy to book with. I texted him mid-morning and had a session mid-afternoon. His place is a nice apartment in the Dallas Design District that's easy to find.

Yes. In fact, I put the lube bottle in one ziplock and put that ziplock bag inside another ziplock bag now.

My skin seems to absorb everything but silicone lube very quickly. Silicone is my general-purpose go-to lube. It provides the most durable lubrication that I've tried. I use water-based lube on silicone rubber toys to keep them from turning into goo. I would like to find a silicone lube that's a bit thicker and more viscous so I could apply it more precisely. Spilled silicone lube creates a real mess. Spilled silicone lube on a tile floor is DANGEROUS. I was lucky to be on a flight back home when a silicone lube bottle leaked in my checked luggage. I'd have had to scramble if I arrived in another city with all of my clean clothes soaked in silicone lube.

I should have paid attention to the red flags when I arrived for an appointment with a young asian masseur. (1) he was good looking, but nothing like the photos in the ad. (2) BIG RED FLAG after a minute or so, I realized that he didn't know anything about the text message conversation I'd been having with him and he then said "Oh, that person is in Houston." I guess I was dealing with some form of organized crime although the part I saw was pretty small in scale.