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WebMD on Skoliosexuality Okay, the term applies to me. Skolio- means bent or curved. I wish it didn't sound so negative. The only other use of skolio- or scolio- that I can think of is the medical condition scoliosis. Although I do like the fact that there is a term for it.

I normally use a desktop or my iPad around the house but recently needed to buy a laptop for work travel. I thought that it only needed to run a word processor and a browser. So, I tried to save money and buy a reconditioned laptop. Then, I learned that the older hardware couldn't log into a work-related VPN so I had to replace it with a newer machine. So, beware of older hardware as a money-saving method.

I think that BilliCherry looks adorable. If anyone meets him, I'd love to hear about it. BilliCherry's RentMen Profile

After reflecting on your answer, that's one of the main things that I learned and like about this forum too.

A female friend of mine who had experience with quite a few male sex partners once told me over drinks, "a big dick makes whatever kind of lover into more of that kind of lover. It can make a good lover great or a bad lover terrible." She also said that guys with big dicks are often otherwise lazy in bed and rush the experience for her. She mocked their arrogance saying "I brought the big dick, I shouldn't have to do anything extra." Then, she commented that guys who had genuinely average dicks almost always think they have small dicks and she liked when she could reassure them. Also, she said that a guy who genuinely had a smaller-than-average dick was usually very motivated to use all the rest of their body and put in a lot of effort to ensure she got the satisfaction she wanted. At the time of the conversation, I hadn't had that much receptive male sex but as I gained experience, I found that a lot of what she said rang true.

I think it's very believable that will be an impact at some time. There are several communities where federal hiring is the backbone of the local economy. For another post about a couple of years ago, I happened to write down that Rent.men showed 153 profiles in Washington DC. Just now, it shows 252 profiles. So, if that is going to happen, it doesn't seem to have happened yet.

A photo of the whole guy posed where I happen to see his hole is great. A photo of just the hole feels more like a medical reference than a turn on for me.

I don't have a minimum size. I don't have a hard line on a maximum size either but I actually love the right-in-the-middle-of-the-bell-curve size range the best. I've never disqualified a partner for too small of a penis. I've had a great time with trans men and with a partner who had a penis the size of my ring finger. When they get larger than average, they get increasingly more challenging for me to either service orally or to comfortably take bottoming.

Here's the science answer, Doctor Stefan Buntrock is a urologist (the doc knows penises!) walks you through how a urologist measures a penis in this video.

Some of the massage sites have rules around names. Particularly they screen out names that imply sexual activity. You might see "Mind Blowing Massage with Joe" on one site where he poses with a banana touching his lips on one site and "Luxurious Massage by J." on another site where he poses in scrubs in front of a massage table on another site that wouldn't allow the word "blowing" or suggestive photos in an ad.

@Vegas_MillennialMaybe you'd like the InterroGATion events.

@Vegas_Millennial On the "Watts the Safe Word" podcast a listener emailed in the question: "what's the funniest safe word that you ever remember hearing? The answers that I remember laughing at were: "Lawsuit", and "I LOVE YOU!"

I hope that you are able to find some comfort in this forum and in whatever ways you are able to express that side of your sexuality whether in the physical or imaginary world. I hope you get the most satisfaction possible.

I had a guy ask me for an abduction role-play and consensual-non-consent "rape" scene. I declined. One of my biggest fears around that would be to be mislead and actually harm someone who didn't want it. Now, if I already knew the guy and had been a successful sexual partner with them and trusted them to look out for everyone's safety, I might consider it. But, I'd require a written contract and a video-recording of us both showing ID's and discussing what he actually wanted to do to him, any limits or warnings, and safe-words. Then, I'd have to stage the "abduction" so that any bystander would not be alarmed. Like maybe, I just walk up behind him and whisper in his ear "come with me or else".

@Alabastrine Is there something that stands out in your memory that you've been surprised to learn since you joined CompanyOfMen?

Do you have a fantasy that: Really turns you on to think about AND You ABSOLUTELY NEVER want to try out in real life? I'm sure that I have several, but here's one that had me thinking lately: It's being used (as a bottom) in a completely anonymous fashion where I never get to know who did it. I can't remember where I heard of the San Francisco Horse Market but when I web-searched the term . . . holy cow! The Horse Market is a gay sex party where attendees sign up in advance as either a "mare" or a "stallion". Mares are bottoms. They arrive at the event earlier than the stallions (who are tops) strip and are blindfolded with cloth hoods, taken into the "stable" (play area) and lightly restrained. When the tops arrive, they can examine, grope, and fondle any of the mares and "mount" them however he chooses. The mares get used (probably by several stallions) during the party but never get to see or know which stallions they serviced. Actually doing that (either as mare or stallion) crosses several big red lines for me. But, thinking about it is currently a turn-on for me.

@Alabastrine Welcome to CompanyOfMen! I would love to hear some of your thoughts and opinions in several of the threads throughout the forum. I'm looking forward to seeing you post more here!

I’ve been told that a super fun game is to sexually tease the caged guy. Move your face down, kiss and lick his balls, even take the cage into your mouth while you mix in dirty talk. And as he becomes more aroused and straining within the cage . . . then, remind him that he is caged and just there for use as a bottom.

I’m a slutty, bisexual, former martial arts teacher and former wrestler and former firefighter/medic. I’ve been touched all over in both sexual and non-sexual ways countless times. Whenever, TSA agents need to pat me down, it’s absolutely no-big-deal for me. I’m always just smiling and saying “just go ahead and get it done” while they, hesitantly and embarrassed, keep repeating that we can move somewhere private. I’ve been amused a couple times when the millimeter wave scanner flagged my wrist when I was in a short sleeve shirt or flagged my ankle when I was wearing shorts and sandals. They went through the motions of patting down my bare skin to comply with procedures.

2025 updates and for non-DFW locals: The View didn't last very long and closed permanently. TMC is a bar named The Mining Company it's right in the gayborhood. Marty's is also a bar kind of on the edge of the gayborhood. I have a hearing loss that makes loud dance clubs less pleasant for me. (I'll wear clear silicone earplugs when I do go into them.). The Hidden Door is a really fun neighborhood bar were you might encounter literally anyone. It's like a much friendlier version of the Mos Eisley Cantina on Tatooine. Last time I was there, they only accepted cash payments.