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It's easy to poo-poo Facebook. But there are some people on it that while not incredibly close to me that I still like to know what's going on with. For example-I have a close acquaintance named Shawn. We haven't lived in the same city since 2003, and I haven't seen him in person since around 2007. But I had a lot of good times with him over a two year period from 2001-2003. I would have spent a lot of lonely lunches in the cafeteria at work if I hadn't met him. Besides people like Shawn, my nephew and niece post a lot of pictures of my great-nephews and great-nieces. Since I don't get to see them very often, I can at least see their pictures.

I'm wondering whether this discomfort might be the same as a married guy who has a one time affair-and is burdened with conscience to tell his spouse. Whom are you really helping? You because you can lay your conscience to rest for the supposed no-no of having found out the escort's info. But if the escort isn't escorting under his real name, are you really helping him by letting him know you know something he'd rather wasn't public knowledge? You are most likely only going to make him uncomfortable with you. It sounds like a way to ruin a session with me. Of course if you are a long established client possibly it would be OK to tell the escort. But even then in a long term 'relationship' if the escort hasn't told the client anything, perhaps he still wouldn't like the client knowing private information. One of the smartest escorts I was ever with surprised me with information about me. (He didn't do it himself, but he had a computer savvy friend or worshipper. I was never quite clear on that. ). I didn't really care that much because he seemed like a trustworthy guy. I had already told him my name. I don't know how many people know this. But sometimes I've come across knowledge inadvertently. It's all due to the evils of Facebook and of smartphones. Years ago after I bought my first or second iPhone and started keeping my Contacts info on it, I noticed that a lot of my escort listings would pop up with another name on the page. I figured out that these people had signed up for Facebook with their phone number. There is an option that in effect syncs your Contacts List with Facebook. Once that's done-POOF- your Contact Page lists the name the escort is under on his Facebook page. Some escorts are on Facebook under their 'stage name' like AJ Irons. So in his case it doesn't matter. Facebook has also sent me emails of possible people I might know inadvertently giving me the names of escorts. I'm sure this is because Facebook has matched emails or phone numbers from my contact list. Who needs a government Big Brother when now we have Facebook and Google trying to track us across multiple websites?

I'll take the opposite view. I think it's self-protection. When you think about it, being with an escort is not a normal type of situation. Here you are most likely carrying large sums of money around a complete stranger that you usually know very little about. In my case these guys are almost always younger, and they are definitely in much better shape than I am. You might be without clothing in their presence making you even more vulnerable. I lost my Kindle e-reader over Christmas at a California airport. I contacted the Lost & Found, but it was never turned in. If you can't even trust humanity to turn in a freaking Kindle to Lost & Found, how much more potential danger is there in meeting an unknown person while carrying large sums of cash. Years ago, long before Facebook, Twitter, Image Search, and the like, I found out, I don't remember how, some information that made me not want to hire the guy. I remember being very glad I had found out. But under no circumstances @samandtham should you reveal what you know.

My cousin

He lists his email. If he didn't want to be contacted, he probably wouldn't. I'd try it if you want to meet him.

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What are those numbers?

If this is the guy, he lists his email.

Maybe this should have been posted in Politics Section.

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Can they go so far as to make the beast with two backs when undercover?

I'm not insulted. But you could say the same thing about topping or bottoming with a stranger. I'm talking of course about the average stranger, not an extreme case. There is a good chance that most escorts are not going to be hired by their dream type guy. In that case there is a possibility they might be getting 'personal' with someone they wouldn't choose on their own. The hallmark of a good escort is they can perform with an average client. If you are the type that needs 'chemistry,' and there's nothing wrong with that, then it's probably a good thing you aren't an escort.

And that may be one reason you aren't an escort.

Is it me or is it possible his loafers are a bit on the light side?

Thank you, Ross. That would never have occurred to me.

A pubic area without hair is like a day without sunshine.

I appreciate the support. And he might have screwed up then. But he has occasionally done some very thoughtful things for me outside the bedroom. So there's no need for me to throw him to the bears quite yet.

Maybe I can get big-n-tall and Truhart1 to hold a practiCUM for me, so I can get the MG Seal of Approval too?

You are a born mediator. Are you a middle child by any chance?

I once had an escort I really liked tell me I wasn't that great a kisser after we had spent multiple weekends together. It was surprising how much it hurt. I hope Mike has a chance to lay some conciliatory groundwork in case Joe ever happens upon this thread by mischance. With my escort it might have been a matter of incompatibility because other escorts had told me I was a pretty good kisser. And while it's possible this one escort was telling the truth where others hadn't, I had had multiple FWB compliment my kissing too.

Any chance sortakindaSuperBecket could refill my Bloody Mary rather than a mimosa (oh and if you could, please leave out the Tabasco and replace with Worcestershire) Mike is looking quite lumberjack-ish with that beard. I heartily approve!!

I thought Hastert was a wrestling or boxing coach. Why are the boys wearing kimonos? I had an occurrence several years ago where a youngster contacted me through Grindr. His stated age was 18. But then in conversation he told me he was 16. He was the one who initiated the texting in the first place. I'm not usually attracted to youngsters like that. When he told me he was 16, I said I can't talk to you, and I immediately blocked him.

Yes, but too much discretion makes a review worthless.