Eric Hassan

My breaking point is an overweight man who just lays there and expects me to physically move him around - not playfully throw him around, mind you, but roll him over because he can't or won't do it himself. Though you can basically remove "overweight" in that statement lol

My breaking point is an overweight man who just lays there and expects me to physically move him around - not playfully throw him around, mind you, but roll him over because he can't or won't do it himself. Though you can basically remove "overweight" in that statement lol

My breaking point is an overweight man who just lays there and expects me to physically move him around - not playfully throw him around, mind you, but roll him over because he can't or won't do it himself. Though you can basically remove "overweight" in that statement lol

Size doesn't matter to me. A client is hiring for a specific purpose/experience and regardless of their physical appearance I try to do my best to make sure they receive the exact service they requested. As long as you go into it with a positive attitude you are more likely to receive a positive outcome.

My greatest regret is not making more of the time I had with my partner of 22 years, before his sudden death in 2000. You never realize how much time you really have, and tend to put things off for LATER....
 
Often, Later never comes...

Regrets are a waste of time...

I think it's fair and reasonable for a client to share at least basic stats with an escort - whatever they may be - along with other pertinent information. We all have different tastes, and some men enjoy overweight guys. As escorts, we sometimes are hired by guys who aren't our particular tastes, but I personally find that if I have at least a little clue about what this person looks like, I can find a way to eroticize the encounter and the guy so I can bring my best self to the session. That said, if someone doesn't volunteer this information, it isn't a deal breaker for me. It's just more helpful if I have it.

Trolls have been a "Feature" of the Internet long before most of you have been around. If you would like a historical prospective, check out the anti-troll FAQ:
 
http://www.hyphenologist.co.uk/killfile/anti_troll_faq.htm
 
Here are some helpful tips for dealing with Trolls:

Don't Feed the Trolls....They only eat humans, especially young humans. Offering them food will usually result in loss of fingers, hands, arms, and sometimes heads.
 
 
Don't Wake the Trolls...They are vane about their names. Mention their name and they will wake up. Trolls are grumpy when awaken, and usually hungry...See the first rule.
 
 
Don't Play with the Trolls...Remember how Cats play with mice? That's how Trolls play with humans, and remember what happens to the mouse once play time is over!
 
 
Don't Teach a Troll...They are very set in their ways, They get very angry very fast. When they get angry they play. See previous rule.
 
 
Don't Argue with a Troll...They are very set in their ways, They get very angry very fast. When they get angry they play. See previous rule.
 

 
If a Troll shows up, the safest course of action is to ignore the Troll. Slip away slowly and very quietly, What ever you do don't attract their attention.

I think it's fair and reasonable for a client to share at least basic stats with an escort - whatever they may be - along with other pertinent information. We all have different tastes, and some men enjoy overweight guys. As escorts, we sometimes are hired by guys who aren't our particular tastes, but I personally find that if I have at least a little clue about what this person looks like, I can find a way to eroticize the encounter and the guy so I can bring my best self to the session. That said, if someone doesn't volunteer this information, it isn't a deal breaker for me. It's just more helpful if I have it.

Yes.
 
Every time.
 
It's not whether I am a saint or not or whether a good escort should like everyone. It's not that I need to be "warned", I just need all necessary information.
 
When I say yes attraction has nothing to do with my answer. Yes, you should always share your expectations before meeting and yes, you should always share information about you that might hinder the fulfillment of those expectations.
 
There's tons of wonderfully fun things one can do with a lover who is even morbidly obese and clean, but because of simple physics there are things that are just not possible.
 
I was once hired by a guy who weighed possibly two and a half times my weight. He was really handsome and I thought the session was going well. At some point, after adjusting heights and angles, finally I was able to fuck him. As soon as I was inside him, he jerked at my arms frantically demanding that I lifted him with my dick and fucked him against the wall the way he had seen in a porn movie.
 
This is not an exaggeration. And as much as this case was extreme, it is quite common for people not in touch with their bodies to demand things are -because of the size and condition of their bodies- simply impossible.
 
You are three hundred pounds and you want me to lift you like you were a tiny young man? I am sorry, it sounds as if I am not the man for you. I don't think I can fulfill your expectation.
 
I will not go see someone who I think I might disappoint. If someone wants something that I am not confident I can provide, I will be clear about it and will suggest I am not the right man for the job. I will explain my point and I will offer options, but I will be very happy not to have brought into a situation where the only outcome is failure.
 
Now... let's not talk about me. Let's not talk about those other escorts who will be thrilled about seeing anyone. Let's talk about the other ones...
 
If I am insecure about the way I look, whether it is justified or not, if I feel ashamed that I am fat, for example and I show up at an escort's door just to have that escort close the door on my face because I am fat, or worse, have the escort take my money while he does absolutely nothing for me... that would make me so much unhappier and more insecure.
 
Why not give the escort every chance to reject me beforehand to avoid the much harsher possibility of being rejected in person or being taken for a ride?
 
ALWAYS GIVE THE NECESSARY INFORMATION. Not for your escort. For yourself.
 
You deserve to be treated well. You deserve to be treated with respect, and you deserve to have someone who understands your expectations clearly.

This is not an escort response but one from a client. I was obese for a long time and then lost 130 lbs in 2010. Before I lost the weight I would always tell the escort of my size so that wouldn't be surprised. Since the weight loss I always warn the escort that I've got serious sagging since I haven't had skin reduction surgery. I believe it best to be totally honest with the escort before booking an appointment.

I'm of the school that believes that the escort needn't be warned/informed. Two reasons:
 
1. As JD has pointed out, a quality, professional escort shouldn't care.
 
2. It is very difficult to tell an escort that you're overweight without coming across as having self confidence issues. I believe that while extra weight may be unattractive, low self confidence is 10 times more unattractive. If you walk into an escort appointment carrying yourself like you are the sexiest man alive, a good escort will pick up on that energy and roll with it. I'm not suggesting that you be cocky or arrogant, but just confident. On some level, I think we all expect an escort to do a little acting to make us feel sexier than perhaps we are; as clients, we can play the supporting role.

For the record, I do try and ensure that my sounding experiences are as sterile as possible, without having an autoclave available. I use alcohol swabs to sterilize the rods, I place them on paper towels or fresh/unused hand towels and I try to only touch the proximal ends of the rods, so that areas that I'm touching are not entering the urethra. For the record though, I don't much care for medical lube, it's not slippery enough and there's too much friction which creates the potential for damage. I figure that silicone lube being squeezed from a bottle is likely sterile enough. None of my clients have experienced any medical issues after sounding with me.

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Because of my experience in sounding, I get a fair number of requests from guys who want to try it, but I've also experienced alot of guys who are completely freaked out by the idea of it (which often evolves into an interest). I've found it to be one of you most polarizing of all fetishes/kinks. So, what is your reaction to it?