LADoug1
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I'd clarify just a few things beforehand:
- does he need some time to himself during the 24 hours? if so, how much...
- if he gets phone calls, does he prefer to take them? does he always hold off from them? same clarification with texts, emails. for you, just knowing what his perspective is on this, would be helpful so expectations are in order.
- food, gosh, yeah, I love what the earlier poster said in this thread... 3 meals a day. nothing drives me crazier (well there are some things, grin...) than when a client wants to forgo a meal. I put out a lot of physical energy, and I, for one, need fuel. it's fine if a client doesnt want to eat, but I do. my point here is just talk with him first to clarify his fuel needs, heh heh. and you might as well ask then if he has any dietary needs, too.
remember to just enjoy the fact that you'll have extended time with that guy. seriously, I've been with a number of clients who seem to bring their bucket list along, and that takes the spontaneity out of the experience.
And consider too how often he will check email, texts, or take phone calls. He should be given time to do this.
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$150 for a session this weekend.
Who suggested the discount? You or the escort?
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Anyone heard that a good way to avoid an arrest by an undercover cop is to try to deep kiss him immediately upon meeting? I’ve heard that if they’re a cop they won’t let you do this. I’ve been with one escort who did this and was rather aggressive about it.
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That is incorrect. A compulsion is a repetitive behavior from which an actor is unable to refrain. An addiction is a compulsion compounded by a physical dependency.
I would add psychological dependency to the addiction definition.
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Beautiful picture
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too long it feel like sometimes
but probably less than 4 years taking it seriously. I had long breaks in the beginning bc i was in serious relationships.
I’m sorry you’re conflicted about being in the business. You seem so sweet!
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Considering the number of outstanding reviews you have on RM I would hope potential clients would consider the one bad review just a fluke. I know I would.
- Deadlift1, MikeSinz, marylander1940 and 1 other
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I'm not dismissing the physical factors that may be contributing to what you're experiencing. I'm all for current blood work, a physical, and a check-up to rule out biological factors. Take a look at your diet, exercise, weight, and more.
But, I want to also touch on the the psychological factors: stress and over-training. If you have trained yourself to cum when your penis is held very firmly, then anything other than very firm may not be stimulating. Even worse, the stress and associated anxiety, fear, and worry with "not performing" create a self-reinforcing psychological habit that discourages cumming or as it progresses even maintaining an erection.
The over-training issue and psychological ED both fall under Male Orgasmic Disorder.
https://www.allaboutcounseling.com/library/male-orgasmic-disorder/
If you have trained your body to cum only with very firm grips, it will take practice and time to retrain for variability again. Plus, you'll want to work through the associated psychological issues related to performance anxiety, fear, etc. You can do all of this though! Awareness, patience, compassion, and persistence will help. Good luck!
The article doesn’t include medication as a cause for ED and the inability to achieve orgasm. Antidepressants were a major factor for me.
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It has been 17 years for me.
Best proof that practice makes absolute perfection.
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That's a new one. I have always thought they should, and brought it up with my Prep doc. He just shrugged his shoulders and said they didn't do that.
What sort of screen do they use- DEXA, urinary N-telopeptide?
Bone density test. Some sort of X-ray.
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Beautiful picture.
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Giving a good bj starts with mentally getting in the mood for it, think of that big juicy cock as a delicious 5 course meal. Start off by licking the shaft and balls for a bit, then work on the cock and get it nice and wet, slurp that cock, the more wet it is the better, work down to the base of the cock, lots of guys like deepthroat, but if u can't go all the way down, go down as far as u can before gagging. As your sucking also use your hands and do this twisting motion at the same time, do that somewhat fast and it helps a guy to cum
The hand twist action drives most guys crazy!
Also if he goes down on you be aware of how he does it. It might be the way he likes it for himself. That’s been my experience.
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Dane is by far the best overall escort experience I have ever had.
Bump. Best sexual experience of my life. A kind, fine human being.
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They test for kidney and liver function among other things in the initial PreP visits, which could suggest a patient might not tolerate the medicine well. They continue these tests while taking the med to monitor for possible harm to the kidneys, which may develop over time, in addition to the HIV test at each PreP visit.
They also test for the propensity towards osteoporosis. I had this propensity so decided I wasn’t a candidate for PreP. Gotta stick with condoms and safe sex.
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What about Nate (your hunk) in Long Beach? I’ve read great things about him and his pics look hot and friendly.
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Love the Men On Edge videos.
- whipped guy and + Trebor
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I bet Juan Vancouver would be a great teacher. Too bad he’s taking a break from Forum participation.
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First profile I’ve seen that has an unlocked private gallery.
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And remember that there are as many boyfriend experiences as there are boyfriends.
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I recommend this series. Some flaws but a good watch. My favorite was Boyle Heights.
On YouTube.
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Inquiring minds want to know....do you also have....The Clapper?
Insensitive reply.
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For all you Hot-Wired guys!
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OMFG this is my fantasy and absolutely favorite position.