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Apparently the premium price tag, is to help fund his addiction to steroids.

I've lived in NYC for years. I would say, that celebrities are "out and about" more commonly in certain neighborhoods. I bump into TONS of celebrities in the West Village all the time. Yoko Ono, of all people, was standing in front of my house the other day, just out strolling with a young, twink and chatting about something. Too many celebrity sightings to list, after all my years in NYC. I think the more interesting ones, were back in the late 80s./ early 90s, when you'd spy some future celebrities, getting down n' dirty at various underground clubs.

$ 450 ? *pass*

I inquired about a date with both Tommy and Pedro, while in London last summer. Neither were capable of holding down a conversation long enough to answer my questions, and therefore, I passed on both. For the kind of prices they are charging, I expect some level of customer service...and the fact you can't be bothered to communicate is always a red flag.

hmmmm....S.U. is my alma mater....maybe I need to get up there for a trip down memory lane and a chance to make some some new memories.....

WHOA COWBOY. No one said anything about an "unhappy marriage". The sex dies off in most marriages, and that becomes a dilemma for many. That therapist is dead on track with supporting this fellows right to get his needs met.

In general, when you don't have honesty and trust in a relationship, you don't have a relationship. So ....simply put, if your partner is upset you went behind his back, he has a right to be upset about that. In response, it is perfectly reasonable for you as a human being to desire a healthy sex life. So, the conversation to be had, is to first: apologize for the betrayal of trust... (and don't make excuses). Just apologize. THEN, move on to the issue of sex and have an adult conversation with this man, who you should know well enough by now. If he cares about you, then he should care that you're in need of some physical attention. Throw the responsibility of what to do about the situation in his lap, and take it from there. If he can't be bothered, then you really don't have a relationship anymore. If you're partner doesn't care about your, needs...then you need to move on. It's reasonable to be hurt about the deception, but it's not reasonable to pretend your emotional/physical needs are not his responsibility at all. Even if it requires an understanding that you're going to get them met, elsewhere.

$ 300 is an outrageous amount of money, unless you're fulfilling your fantasy and booking a porn star.

I agree. Shaving your pubes, makes me feel like a child molester. It's disgusting. I can't even get hard, it's so unappealing to me. Total turn off.

I get about 50 messages per day since I joined.

Actually, I called them "pound puppies" because they are all young, want someone to take care of them, and are looking to get pounded, in exchange.

Thank God, Max doesn't escort, or I'd be out some serious money every week...... JUST adorable. So....."my type"...( if I had a type).

Yeah...that IS pretty "old fashioned". I grew up in the sexual revolution, not the 1950s. Fuck first, and ask questions later. ha ! ( No ..not really...but sex is definitely part of getting to know someone, in MY world). Even my mother, apparently sampled the goods, before she married my father.

I wouldn't be interested in someone long term if there was ZERO sexual connection. So I slept with everyone who I've met on SeekingArrangement.com after our first date.

CLEARLY ! The only dates I've ever been on, that did not end in sex were in High School and with girls...and even with most of them, I got laid. I would point out that any beautiful woman, who's dating a successful business man is putting out on a regular basis in an effort to win the grand prize. No one brings home an escort to meet their mom.

What I meant by normal, is that people don't always PAY for sex. When you are shopping for a rich husband, you're not charging by the hour.

Ummmm...that's called having a NORMAL RELATIONSHIP with someone. Having you been so focused on pay for play, that you forgot how MOST people do it ? The majority of these young, men are not interested in a series of strangers paying their rent. They want one successful older man to take responsibility away from them, and in exchange offer themselves as a "constant companion"....aren't all relationships between younger and older pretty much the same thing ?

dyslexic or alcoholic ?

Like anywhere you are meeting people, you need to spend enough time to be discerning about the person you meet. Seeking Arrangement is as littered with young men, with strange ideas as any other site where people are offering themselves to spend "time" with strangers in exchange for cash. Most of the young men, I have talked to, are actually spending time asking questions, getting to know each other and feeling it out before they offer any one on one time, and less than half put a price tag on an initial meeting. I would say, in my experience, 1/3 of these young gentlemen are escorting in the traditional "by the hour" format.

Rule of thumb: Trim the bushes out front, and completely remove anything out back.

There is a big range of relationship expectations on that site. It did take me sometime to filter out the unrealistic sugar babies.

I've had several dates with really handsome young men, and I haven't paid for anything but dinner. Obviously their goal is to work their way up to a relationship, that gets more...but the "test-drive" phase is fabulous. I have a long list already of potential pound puppies.

SEEKING ARRANGEMENTS has a fairly wide range of relationships being sought. Everything from by the hour escorts, to young men looking for a strong male figure in their life as they head out in the world. There is no one single "arrangement".

I have to say, I have always been more excited by catching a peek at a young man's fit body, over the "letting it all hang out" image, that leaves nothing to my imagination.

# 14 would definitely have me cancelling my appointments and staying in bed for the day. http://www.manhuntdaily.com/files/SV-10006.jpg