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"Certainly the hottest royal in town". Once again...the term "hot" being quite relative. Pleasant looking kid. I dunno about "hot". If he weren't a Prince, I wouldn't look twice.

I would probably be laughing the whole time if a twink tried to top me. The whole concept is comical to me.

Not necessarily. You may hook up on Grindr but still not be attracting the kind of A-list booty that you'd really like to get into. Rent.men gives ordinary people the chance to fuck someone WAY out of their league.

No reason to be sorry. Your contribution was very much on topic. (More than I can say of certain regular commenters who segue every conversation into their own.)

Never understood why the gays love such a big dick. Back when I was younger and my ( older ) companions wanted to fuck my brains out....I was pretty experienced at taking dick but I just don't know that anything over a certain point was anything but frightening to me. Yet, when I read the comment threads here, the wolves are absolutely drooling over every provider with an abnormally huge cock ( sometimes even when they're not particularly good looking ). Not referring to this guy...he's a looker. But when I see that dick, and discover he's a TOP... my first reaction is PASS ! I wonder if I was doing something wrong, back then.

I think a lot of gay men (although not exclusively )...have a bad habit of working out their sexual fantasies online at the expense of the person with whom they are communicating. You see this odd behavior on Grindr and I am not surprised to hear that escorts/masseurs suffer the effects of this mental illness too. I have myself engaged in MANY MANY conversations on Grindr with men who may spend over an hour discussing the possibility of a sexual encounter only to disappear, never to be heard from again. My take on this weird, but common phenomenon is that lots of people ( men ) get off on the mere hunt for sex and not necessarily the consummation. Mostly likely jacking it at home, while the poor escort/masseur is left wondering where their next meal is coming from. Very sad. But sadly common.

Officially- I don't pay for sex. I don't particularly care for the concept. I pay for time spent. I would however, share that if I have a "special relationship" with a masseur, I am always sure to "tip" him extremely generously.

I understand. And I agree. It's a British-English habit to say "at University" or "at Hospital". American-English would be "at MY University" or "at THE hospital". Good linguistic sleuthing.

The concepts of "twink" and Dominant top seem mutually incompatible in the same person. But maybe that's just me.

We don't win every battle. That's not extreme. It's realistic. There's a great line from the "Red Green Show" ( A Canadian comedy/ home improvement show ) "If you can't find what you fancy, then fancy what you find."

For me it's that ripped V shaped abdomen. I couldn't care less if a guy has a dick (and yes I've fucked a few FTM guys.)

I generally don't hire escorts ..but if I find a good masseur who may take things beyond the massage table ..that's a keeper.

Life is never simple....adapt or give up. Thankfully Escorts make things more straightforward for those of us who don't have time for complicated.

I have always said: "If it weren't for prostitution, ugly people would never get laid".

Well certainly fucking fresh peach is more desirable than jamming your cock in some dried apricot. When I was in my 20s everyone wanted to fuck me. When I was in my 40s everyone want me to fuck THEM. Adapt or admit defeat

I am perfectly content with condoms. Which my doctor recommends.

Well...for starters that's not my Grindr photo is it ? That photo is from years ago when I first started using the forum. Secondly the fellow who started this conversation did NOT describe himself as a "bear". He said "beefy". Maybe a minor distinction but there is a difference.

https://news.yahoo.com/sex-revenge-porn-webcams-firing-180602723.html In this New York Times article Adame insinuates his situation is a matter of being "prudish" but when confronted with the key to his firing he "doesn't want to discuss". If you want to do a real mea-culpa you need to man up and admit you made a mistake. Not call your employer prudish because they don't like you getting gang fucked with your employers name written across your naked body while you snort meth ...and WILLINGLY posting all that ONLINE !! This little dude has some mental problems.

Nice looking guy..but $250 for a massage ? Would need stellar reviews ( of which there are none ).

It was used to bring down the Governor of New York State - Eliot Spritzer in 2008. They never followed through with the charges but the allegations destroyed his political career.

He's looking for a rich sugar daddy. Available for "good conversation and organize a pleasant meeting or trip". He ain't selling tickets to ride his ass.

I consider the "whatsapp" ONLY to be a red flag for business purposes I don't trust people who make it difficult to trace them when things go bad.

Cute couple I remember taking the family to Turkey....I kept thinking I need to come back here alone. Lots of handsome men. $ 800 for a three-way seems like a lot, unless somebody can give glowing reviews.

Ah...ok. Got it. You should have said so ! You just have a bit of a learning curve ahead of you. I just went through this recently, mentoring one of my old wrestling buddies from high school who left his wife of 25 years and finally admitted to himself he was gay. He didn't know where to start, to meet cute young guys, because he's now a 50 year old beefy man. So....I can say that if you're an older man who likes younger men, you aren't necessarily out of luck. There's someone for everyone, as they say. We all know that most men are very visual, and so the Instagram hotties look for other Instagram hotties. But not every gay man is wired the same, and there is definitely a community of young pleasant looking guys who want more than a quick hook up / don't feel they can attract Instagram models either & find "dad bods" sexy. I had an older client many years ago (gay man) who used to flirt with the waiter when we'd be out at dinner. He was in his 60s ( me in my late 20s) and I always marveled at the number of times he's get the young handsome waiter's digits. I asked him once how he gets up the nerve...his answer was iconic: "What's the worst that can happen ?...they just say no". *classic* He was so right. NEVER assume you can't attract someone until you try.

I generally don't do the quick hook up thing. If I am interested, I will spend a little time getting to know someone first. So in MY experience ( which is not limited) I have found 90% of the young guys who say they are into older men, share stories of an absent father. Either raised by a single mom, or victims of an abusive or neglectful dad. As we all know, younger gay men don't have a lot of patience and tend to jump from one anonymous hook up to another. Most of these young "daddy-seekers" get no emotional satisfaction with being used and tossed to the side...so when I do meet someone young who is a good match, they generally want to attach for some amount of time. Which is fine by me, as I don't have time to be wasting endless hours looking for my next bit of fun.