This is amazing, thank you all again for such thoughtful responses. I spent a few minutes taking pictures of myself before realizing I will need to dedicate a little more time to it (and soon enough have someone take some for me I'm sure). I think this is a step up for now while I process and execute on the advice from here.
@hypothetically thank you for answering every part of my post as well as the kind words As far as the avatar goes, do you think the current one works? Admittedly, I was hoping it would show a bit more of my physique
@not2rowdy the advice regarding face pictures was really great, there were a couple things here I had not thought of or considered
@nycman thank you! message sent
@Rod Hagen that's also a really good point regarding face pics, I guess I have a bit of thinking to do to decide what protocol would make me the most comfortable.
@Gadfly22 Thank you! I try to be sweet, its nicer than being angry. I'll check him out.
@marylander1940 I didn't even think of that IG idea, I always just figured it would be tough to show enough skin without violating their terms. You said "seeking arrangement success" but you meant success with 'seeking arrangement' right? believe it or not a few years back when I first posted on here I burned several weeks on there putting in consistent effort without success. I probably didn't put my best foot forward but the experience made me skeptical of the site in general (seemed to have a lot of duplicated fake profiles back then).
and @RyanDean thank you also! Following you now, please do reach out if you'd like
KurtBuns got a reaction from marylander1940 in Is it unheard of to go 'dark'? (referrals / word of mouth)
