I am completely guilty of selection bias. I was not always like that, though. I started off being shy in the beginning, and letting things happen organically, if it did. (Something can be said about feeling desired and the excitement of the unexpected.) When in a spa, I never chose my masseur and got whoever was available. (I learned quickly that most of the time you got the person others did not prefer.) I also chose solo therapists based on looks in their profile, romanticizing in my head what could happen. Many $$ after and thanks to this website, I have learned to properly choose masseurs and be more assertive during the sessions, without being disrespectful. I can say that all massages I have had had some form of extras. There are 'hot' looking masseurs that provide unsatisfactory 'intuitive' massages; and there are regular looking guys that give excellent massages. Every one else falls somewhere in between. So, depending on my mood and horniness, I'd go to the person that fulfills my need. Then you find good looking masseurs that provide excellent massages and extra extra experiences. They are usually more expensive, but they are hot memories you can keep! The search for them and novelty are the reasons I check this forum frequently.