I had a massage or two by him decades ago too, and I don't recall him being condescending, but I was also a different person back then, and might have accepted certain attitudes more then than I would now.
That said, I used to see him biking around the city over the past few years, and I he's turned into one of those weird older men with a decidedly in-your-face dressing style that turned me off from wanting to see him undressed ever again.