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  1. I’ve no problem paying $300 for someone I find really hot and want to meet. Even a bit more if I’m somehow extra intrigued or the gentlemen comes recommended from a source I trust.

     

    That said....my problem becomes affording the same guy for repeats. I paid a bit more than $350 recently for a guy I’d lusted over for months on RM. It was an incredible visit....now he keeps asking me to repeat, and I want too....but the amount of repeat the visit stops me.

     

    Similar happened when I was first meeting guys on Seeking...one of my first dates was wonderful connection and chemistry in and out of the bedroom. Problem was I was so new to Seeking and I offered more to guy than I started offering as my experiences there grew. Now...I want to see him, but he’s over double the allowance of at least 2-3 other guys I’ve met there.

     

    If I were you I'd be honest about the situation. Let him know that you don't normally pay that rate and what you're willing to pay on a regular basis. He may agree to it or not. I would think that having a reliable repeat client is more valuable than a lot of new random appointments.

     

    Much like when I had a house for rent. I would be willing to charge a lower rent if I had a great reliable, clean tenant.

  2. You're too sensitive... When someone quotes me a rate that I feel is too high just say how much you're willing to go with. He'll either agree or not. Sometimes they'll take the lower offer but be prepared for a no reply back also. Don't make anyone a 'must have. I will tip generously if it's a great session.

  3. And guys remember....an escort that is willing to do more may only do so when comfortable with the right person. That's why if you really like a certain guy, this can be a very expensive sport to find out so!

     

    And it looks like from the video he might be willing to do things.... but of course i'm not assuming anything.

  4. Call it what you want I don't really care at this point. I asked for his rate and the response I got was a request for prepayment. If any of you see it otherwise then so be it.

     

    I put it on this board to see if this is something new that I should expect when setting up an appointment. From what I gather it is not.

  5. I’m curious, did he specifically demand the $25 to disclose his rate? Because I wonder if he was just letting you know there was a deposit requirement to schedule the appointment and may have overlooked the rate query or provided an incomplete response. We’ve all probably experienced communication difficulties on occasion. That lack of attention to detail still doesn’t bode well for a professional experience.

     

    No, he didn't say the 25$ was to disclose rate. The 25$ prepayment was to set an appointment. The text I sent just prior to that was me asking his rate and location which I felt he chose not answer and sent the request for prepayment instead. Regardless, I felt a payment would have to be made for more information.

     

    I guess I could've pushed further about his rate before making the prepayment but I've never heard of such a thing and just decided I was no longer interested and said no thank you.

  6. Really Jomo?

     

    I honestly did think about it realizing 25$ isn't much. But I feel so many guys think they can demand a premium rate (400 or more an hour). I just felt that could be the next response I'd get. I have no way of knowing this for certain of course and it's possible he may have cut 25$ from what he would've charged.

  7. Well, I guess I wasn't sure if he read this board or not. Also I would've liked to have met him, I do follow his Instagram and never knew he escorted till I saw his ad earlier today.

     

    But I do appreciate the info I get from this board so I will say it was BrodieScott. Don't really think this was a scam so much, I mean you can chose to pay the 25$ or not. It's just asking for it before a rate is even mentioned.

  8. So I'm posting this next tidbit only because it's such a bizarre coincidence. Since I'm not hiring I go to the gym to workout my frustrations and doesn't the guy I contacted show up to workout. My gym's not even in DC, I've never seen him there before nor did I ever expect to see him there. He looked pretty good overall and has a great butt. Would I hire? Depends on his rate I guess which I never did find out. Oh well.

  9. Nope, nothing more. Sent a request and what I was interested in. He replied to say he was available and no problem providing what I requested. I replied asking for donation quote and location, he's visiting. He came back with paypal request for deposit to set up appointment. Maybe he's had a lot of cancels, he could quote something outrageous after making deposit.

  10. My inquiry only included that I liked his ad, admired his hard work and was interested in an appointment. I generally don't go into details until I get an initial reply back. Sent message 1st day ad appeared in DC then again a few days later. I understand guys like this probably get a lot of inquiries. It seems more often than not I get no reply back from others I've tried to contact over the last year or so. There are more guys advertising but few guys are willing to follow up on inquires and its more difficult making appointments happen than in the past. So I'm just wondering how contacts are being made.

     

    I've hired a few others from this group of bodybuilders on multiple occasions and they will contact me when they're in town. I don't believe they always have someone handling their business.

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