BtmBearDad

Yes, your scenario does contribute, and can be helpful. 👍🏻 In fairness, I didn’t even think of those who bump a topic. My comments were aimed just at those who have no experience and/or no intention of hiring, but still make disparaging comments about the provider. These comments do not contribute, and are not helpful. 

Full disclosure, in the majority of my everyday life, I haggle. Whether it’s over a quoted price, to get something thrown in to sweeten the deal, to adjust terms, etc., it’s all part of the dance so to speak. Part of it is familial indoctrination, (“never pay full price!”), and part is my business life bleeding into my personal life. BUT, in this hobby, I don’t haggle. I know what I’m willing to pay, and if a provider’s fee falls in that range, we’re good. 

I don’t expect a comp from a provider just like I wouldn’t expect one from any other service provider. However, I agree with @BenjaminNicholas when he stated you have to spend money to make money. I’ve had providers pay for dinner, drinks, tickets to events, even received gifts. Granted these were from providers that I had long term relationships with, ones with whom I did things outside the boudoir with. I wouldn’t view any of it as a comp though.

The closest I ever had to a comp was again with a regular provider. We had our session, and we’re just laying there chatting away as one does, I said something jokingly about how I should have arranged for a longer session, he offered he was free and could spend the night, I said I was tempted but not about to get up, get dressed, and go to an ATM, his reply was “don’t worry, I got this”. So we ordered room service, watched some TV, played, and went to sleep. Next time I included that fee but he wouldn’t take it. Thereafter, once in a blue moon, he’d ask to stay again on him. So I guess these handful of times would be a sort of comp. 

As to whether providers waive it all together for the hot clients - I cannot say. I would guess it does happen, but I’d also guess it is far more the exception than the rule. 
 
BBD

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