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Agree

Yes- in person, Clark looks just like his pics -great bod

I generally avoid upsells and see them as a bad sign. If kissing is extra, it makes me cautious as to what else might be. For that reason I would stay away. In my mind donations are for the experience and the length of such, measured in time spent (hours, days, weeks) and not for activities.
[uSER=10715]@AnthonyDriller[/uSER] please don't take this as a personal jab, I'm just trying to offer you one client's perspective, and hopefully you can see how this practice might be hurting your brand.

An additional fee for kissing?? Are you serious?

One piece of advice for both escorts and clients: You may or may not be the best kisser, but do this beforehand--antiseptic mouthwash, so that your breath is fresh. A lot of guys don't follow this basic prep.

Agreed. Everyone is different but I want to get right to it and out the door shortly after climax.

In my very first true hire of a guy from a web site about 6 years ago I picked a “porn star” figuring he would know what to do. He knew exactly what to do.
 
I sat on a sofa in his living room and he in an overstuffed chair about 10 feet away. It was to be a 2-hour meeting and he talked for over an hour and half. He talked non-stop about everything under the sun: his days as a flight attendant, real estate, politics, etc. With about 15 minutes left he stood up “well, out time is about up. Why don’t we get back together for some fun.”
I foolishly booked another 2-hours and the exact same thing happened. I didn’t know how “this stuff” was supposed to work and didn’t know what to do. (He is still on RentMen in Atlanta and still advertising as a porn star.)
 
I do like to chat and get acquainted with someone I’ve never met, including in my Seekingarrangement days, but learned to begin some physical contact immediately - a big hug and kiss. Then chatting with a light touch to the forearm... resting a hand on the shoulder.. “do you mind if I kiss you”, etc. I have found myself still yapping away after 30 minutes but that’s my fault. And then move to “shall we get more comfortable” pretty quickly. If I’m getting a vibe that’s anything but enthusiastic I suggest that we schedule for a time when he’s more comfortable.

I have now had sex with every shade of skin color you can name, but there used to be a time in my early 20s where I was only seriously attracted to blonds. I have no idea why I was like that.
 
I was never an escort (not hot enough) but if I had been one in those days, I can see how I would have not been able to stay hard and I would have been a terrible escort and a terrible businessman!!!
 
Some people are just not cut for the job, they need to do something else.

31 posts so far, yet not one escort/masseur has responded.
 
~Boomer~

The word "professional" gets used a lot in the forum in describing escorts. Do forum members consider escorts that discriminate against race, age, weight, etc., to be "professional"? Does it make a difference if the escort is upfront about his discriminatory practices in his advertising?

I'm not an escort. But the several times I've hired one, I always informed them that I was black. Just wanted them to know ahead of time, people have silly hang ups and if it's an issue for them I rather they tell me upfront & I won't waste my time & money on poor service. Also don't want to meet up & then get rejected.
 
While I haven't booked anyone for their full service, (just massage and some extras,) I have experienced a couple providers either ghosting me after I told them I'm black or all of sudden "need to reschedule" to a time I said I wouldn't be available. One instance the provider told me he wouldn't be attracted to me and that it wouldn't work out without some level of attraction. Another told me "You can find another escort." It's disheartening just until I delete text thread, then I move on.
Maybe it's just like that here in MN ??‍♂️

He looks so yummy

This mirrors my exact experience. He apologized for having "smoke" breath and the session went for 1/4 of the time that it was supposed to.

Not sure if you think I’m flaky. I don’t think so. We hadn’t met before. We were set to meet from 2-4 in a respected downtown hotel. He was the host. I had an event to attend at 6:00. At 12:30, after hearing nothing from him and in response to my text, he announces that we can meet in a small RV seven miles north or take the time to find a hotel someplace and share the cost. Not the kind of situation a pro would present to a client.

So I finally met up with them - words cannot express how great of an experience I had during our time together. If anyone ever needs to know more if they are curious, feel free to PM me.

I would venture to say the thing I would get here would be what people's experiences have been doing overnights - as I stated in my post, I know it varies by escort, but I don't think it's a bad thing for me to understand what others have experienced when they've had overnights in the past. I appreciate your opinion though.

I would venture to say the thing I would get here would be what people's experiences have been doing overnights - as I stated in my post, I know it varies by escort, but I don't think it's a bad thing for me to understand what others have experienced when they've had overnights in the past. I appreciate your opinion though.

I would venture to say the thing I would get here would be what people's experiences have been doing overnights - as I stated in my post, I know it varies by escort, but I don't think it's a bad thing for me to understand what others have experienced when they've had overnights in the past. I appreciate your opinion though.

100% recommended. Without giving a review, I would rank it as my very best experience.

I'm meeting with him on Friday, I'll let you know how it goes.

I'm meeting with him on Friday, I'll let you know how it goes.

I’d be fem with that stud!

I went last night - it was an incredible time. I definitely will add my name to the list of those who endorse it!

I went last night - it was an incredible time. I definitely will add my name to the list of those who endorse it!

Thanks Wolfer! That's very encouraging and also very good advice.