Seymour Butts

I like it a lot better when it's in the moment rather than planned. So if I'm having a longer session and the provider excuses himself to use the restroom, I ask if he'd be willing to share. Some will, some won't.

It's happened to me five or six times now where a long-time (3+ years in the biz) provider meets up with me and then retires within a month thereafter. It's getting hard not to take personally 😁 This is a question for former providers or on-and-off providers. Have you had any clients, after whose session you think to yourself "I need to get out of this business"? Can you describe the encounters that made up your mind?

Thank you everyone! I'm very very willing to accept that this was a rare occurrence that's very unlikely to recur, at least not reliably. But what I'm hearing is that practically no quality massages come with butt stuff at the end, nor do quality escorts offer good massages? It seems like such an untapped market... PS for anyone who mentioned this, whatever advantages I might have in the looks department I more than make up for with a complete lack of social skills 😂

I have a little story to tell here that's led me to wonder if all my escort hires have all been all wrong... Maybe I've wanted a "masseuse" instead? Currently on a gay cruise. The massage appointments in the spa booked up very quickly, and are egregiously overpriced, so some enterprising passengers have handed out ads that they do massages for much lower rates and much easier availability. I did a little due diligence, reached out to one of them. "Is this a massage, or a 😉massage😉" I asked him. "Because I need a massage a lot more than I need a 😉 massage😉 today." He responded that he does deep tissue and gets knots out, which didn't really answer my question, but his rates were in line with regular masseuses and much lower than escort rates so I went ahead and booked it. I get to his room, and yes it's a very good legitimate massage, getting me feeling very nice and very relaxed. Then I notice he's massaging my buttocks an awful lot. Then he positions himself so while he rubs my back, his crotch rubs against my crack. Then he slips it in. "Ummm I didn't really prepare for this," I explain. "I didn't realize this was a part of the package." "It isn't," he responded. "This is for me." He was good looking so I went with it. Gentlemen, it was the most pleasurable fuck I've had in a very, very long time. I'm pretty sure it's because I was so relaxed from the massage that my butt was very welcoming to its surprise visitor. Afterwards, he charged my card less than his usual massage rate, and asked me several times not to tell anyone because he didn't want anyone to expect that kind of service. So I'm inclined, perhaps naïvely, to believe that was legitimately him going for something he wanted. NOW THEN. I want more of that. I want LOTS more of that. Sadly this gentleman lives on the other side of the country, so repeats from him specifically aren't going to be in the cards. But my understanding has always been that a 😉massage😉 comes with a happy ending, maybe a blowie, and that's that. Penises in butts fall strictly under the escorts category, and escorts tend not to have legitimate massage skills. What can people tell me about this type of hybrid service, with a legitimate massage followed by a good plowing? Is it extremely rare? Have I been misunderstanding everything all along???

South Florida in general seems to be Size Queen Heaven!

Did "in you" mean in your mouth or in your butt?

There are guys out there who crave control, be it through bondage, chastity, what have you. Control of someone's finances is another way of controlling someone that fits under this category. HOWEVER. When you've got someone under your physical control, care must be taken not to damage the sub (unless that's what's been very thoroughly discussed beforehand). Same care needs to be taken with financial control. I have a buddy who has a sub that wanted a Dom to take financial control. He got the sub's bank account information and started taking some hefty withdrawals. Months later, the sub found out that the Dom was taking the withdrawals from his account and putting them into smart investments in the sub's name. That's a good and responsible form of findom: the sub gets the mindfuck of no control when actually he'll likely be better off in the long run. I feel like a lot of people latched onto what used to be (and perhaps should have remained) a niche fetish, saw easy money, and ran full steam ahead. To me, it seems roughly equivalent to a sub telling a Dom he wants chastity, so the Dom chops his business off. Yes, the result is effective, but in the process the sub lost something irreplaceable for fairly little gain.

Maybe I've been extraordinarily unlucky? I only have the resources to hire twice a year, so I've seen maybe a dozen providers total. So I do a lot of research beforehand, or at least I try: most of the men who float my boat seem unknown to the kind gentlemen of this site, which is neither a recommendation nor a disrecommendation. Of the twelve or so providers I've seen: One offered me something to drink at his place, then in twenty minutes or so it became apparent that drink was drugged One guy's bed gave me scabies Two couldn't get an erection One was a repeat hire after an incredible first encounter. I flew out to see him a second time, but then an hour before the appointment time he said he had the flu (could have let me know before I flew out there thank you) One completely ghosted me, like he wasn't home at his apartment and wouldn't respond to my messages asking where he was One was a big-time a la carte provider Come to think of it, I have more bad encounters than good ones...why do I do this again?

https://rent.men/BullATL This is someone I know in my personal life who has now joined "the biz." At least two mutual friends have separately told me that they've only had one time when they came hands free from getting fucked, and both of them said it was from him. Ymmv of course.

I believe this is meatball_mike's gorgeous boyfriend. Kudos to him for getting his man into the biz!

One I think about a lot is Corrupt Parole Officer. Lots of "you don't want to go back to jail, do you? Then you better convince me you're worth keeping on the outside." Then, while I try to convince him that I indeed don't want to go back to jail, lots of calling me a criminal dirtbag and the like. (Every time I've actually tried to do roleplay though, it just doesn't work. There'll be like four or five lines of roleplay then it turns into a more typical encounter. But it's a lot of fun to think about!)

I think he is on Rent Men now, isn't this him? https://rent.men/Hasandeep

I really think penis size needs to be compared by volume, not by length. A mid length thick dick is better than a long thin one (at least I think so), and it would be a better measure of fun to review volumes. Plus, if you do it for yourself, you come up with some really flattering-sounding results.

Thank you. I probably am overthinking. Usually I hire for two hours but it goes something like this (if it's a good provider): 0:00 We meet, I am visibly nervous 0:01-0:45 Provider talks to me, soothes me, calms me down 0:46-1:30 The Main Event 1:31 I don't know what to do next, get anxious again, give the provider cash for a full two hours and wrap things up Most people probably make better use of their time than that 😂

Right, thank you. I don't really mind whether or not I finish; so I guess what I'm really asking is whether it's uncouth to ask a provider about his recovery period (it feels uncouth); and, if I can't ask, what can I assume?