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You’re making the right choice. Go with your gut.
 

He texted me last week to tell me he was in town. The first time was mind blowing. U can PM me. Second time was ok. Nice guy for sure. Massive body

Odd man out...I just don't see the problem. We are all different and seek a variety of scenes sexually. I have many gay friends who are only interested in muscle worship with straight guys, no mutual touch even necessary.
 
At least his ad gives you an idea of what he will and will not do. AND...I would much prefer him stating his limitations up front, as opposed to the escort who shows up and you suddenly find out, after the fact, that the escort will not do much of what you had expected.
 
For myself, I'm getting older, and I have had discussions with gay friends about hiring escorts strictly for companionship for travel. Some wouldn't think of it, others say they would be open to it. Sooo...each to his own.
 
For the record...I fall into the category of hiring strictly for companionship, but then again, I'm also the kind of client that "ask" doesn't bother me either.

I find that people who say they are intelligent usually aren't.

I sent him an RM message/email today including a link to this thread. Asked him if he had “any comments” on the thread? I indicated I was local to him and would love to meet if I could verify his pics. Doubt I’ll hear back...

I am fully prepared if I like the looks of an escort to pay the first time for limited play with the knowledge of opening up the escort into more as time goes by and their comfort level increases. These are human beings and not machines. If an escort is also listed on a massage site then bingo! I can schedule and pay for a massage at a reduced fee than an escort session, get a massage and then have interaction and comfort with the guy to see if scheduling an escort session would be worth while. This is an expensive sport guys. It may take many sessions with the guy you plan to keep on board to get him comfortable to the point you want. To think "I'll pay once and my world had better be rocked" is foolish and somewhat naive. It may happen of course but I think that may be more the exception than the rule. On the flip side i have also had a very highly acclaimed escort on here on our first session was fire works. For both of us. I didn't get to see him for about 5 years and he remembered everything down to the smallest detail of our meeting. Our second session was just o.k. and our third session was a disaster. Great person but will never hire again. It just goes to show you that escorts as we are, are people.

Ok yes, beautiful man to look at no denying, but it kills me when these guys makes these "pronouncements" like they're Greta Garbo or Anna Wintour or something lol. WHO gives a sh@t???? And yes, as someone said, 9 out of 10 times they'll be back when they need the $$$ and if not there's 9 or 10 behind them to take their place:rolleyes:
*the ones who truly keep things in perspective - that they did porn to make some dough and got a little fame in that tiny niche - are the ones who simply disappear into the night and move on with their lives.

Robs such a great guy. More eye candy and steamy vibe experience than for massage skills, but if you click, it’s heaven

Miss him from when I used to live in NY. I’ll never forget coming into his studio for an appointment once, right after he took a huge shit. He lit inscense and kinda apologized. We’ve had some great appointments. I recall his work on my calves being excruciating, and I endured it not wanting to seem like a pussy

Miss him from when I used to live in NY. I’ll never forget coming into his studio for an appointment once, right after he took a huge shit. He lit inscense and kinda apologized. We’ve had some great appointments. I recall his work on my calves being excruciating, and I endured it not wanting to seem like a pussy