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This little RM ambiguity has always puzzled me. Do these things indicate giving or receiving (or both). Most of the 130’ish RM guys in Atlanta indicate they are “into” rimming but of the subset I’ve met I know perhaps one or two who are into giving. Sleepyboy has the liberty of being much more overt and distinguishes between the two roles for most things and even offers additional flexibility in some cases (for example, “Kissing: Depends on the person”. ) Maybe some are self evident like “groups” or “socks”.

This quandary arises sometimes when talking with guys on Seekingarrangement. I think that an analogy would be the refusal to buy Nike’s made with child labor in China and Taiwan thereby pressuring the shareholders, via management, to change their labor practices. Closing the shoe factory without some immediate remediating action feels good but simply makes poor people poorer. Is it 1) morally right, and, 2) beneficial to the guy for me to “boycott” him if he’s in dire financial straits? If I decided that it would be morally wrong to engage the guy, keeping my money in my pocket, how would he feel about that? Perhaps simply handing him cash and walking away would come the closest to satisfying both parts of the question but I wonder if that’s realistic or sustainable. With SA guys I decide how to handle it on a case by case basis.

Dohhhh !! :D:D:D Thank you !!!

Not exactly “melted” but you’re on the right track. We had an interesting discussion about professionalism. Sharp guy.

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Spent nearly 3 hours with Magnus... excellent. Very professional and he gave 110% every second of our time together. He's an artist with a bottle of body oil

Has anyone met Lesha Romanov - https://rentmen.eu/LeshaRomanov ?

https://rentmen.eu/JackGunther Is a nice guy, albeit not entirely smooth. Likewise with https://rentmen.eu/hottsportjock

I’d have done the same thing. For what it’s worth, had it been some sort of law enforcement activity I’d wager there is no way that you would have walked away without being confronted. If they went to that much trouble then you’d have been stopped and searched for drugs or some other means by which you could have been arrested. I think that in these circumstances cops are like a hammer and everybody looks like a nail regardless of what actually happened. At a minimum you’d have been detained for a lecture and warning.

Time. I always thought he was hot. (of course the coke and alcohol didn't help)

Well, thank you. I have put on a few pounds since but I appreciate it.

Hmmm yeah.... I think a hyphen is needed somewhere. Tight-ass performer, or, Tight ass-performer. I think the difference is small but, in some circumstances, could be significant. Or, for the adventurous, the omission of the hyphen could serve to heighten the excitement borne of the ambiguity of what he really looks like when the door opens.

Does anyone recognize this pornstar? https://rentmen.eu/TopDollar. 213-992-6752 His photo seem similar to model Aaron Bruckner. http://www.projectq.us/images/uploads/aaron-bruckner-shot-by-bell-soto-for-pref-magazine-11.jpg (Teachable moment: I learned a new word in the pic search - “homotrophy”.).

Yes... doesn’t seem quite right. I’ve a young friend I met on SA who is an eager deep-kisser but initially was very reluctant to kiss after he’d cum. I jokingly told him that he’d gotten his last blowjob and he became much more relaxed.

I visited Carnivore restaurant in Nairobi a few years ago. If it ran, walked or crawled in Africa it was on the menu.

I second PapaTony’s recommendation of @IronMaus

I’ll send pics.

Traveling again. Appointment set. :D:D

Wow. Are people wearing this stuff again? I had these outfits about 30 years ago. I feel so old

I was sort of wondering the same thing. For those who practice this, is it something I would learn while making an appointment? Or after our time together has begun ? The reason I ask is that it’s not something I prefer and, while I’ve only encountered it with one gentleman, I’d have liked to have known about it in advance.

I fall into the category of thanking someone for their response and moving on without further discussion.

I’ve thought about this a bit and I think it would be nice to have a g-rated selfie with a few special guys.

I’ve got a fairly complete client profile that has some detail about me, what I’m looking for and a few pics. I put a fair bit of efffort into it (and, more recently, updating it to pass RM’s criteria) because I hope that guys I contact will read it and let me know if we’re a match - or he doesn’t think we fit. Sometimes I get a response of “I think we’re a great match” but more often I think it’s ignored. Like in any field some people care and some don’t. Regarding the OP, I very much welcome contact from guys who've read my profile and think we’re a good match. If they can pleasanty articulate something about a shared interest then it’s a virtually guaranteed hire.

Yes / unlikely

That “adjust the fee” is a difficult thing for me. I saw a guy for the first time last week and there was something considered pretty mainstream that he declined to do. I went back and looked at his RM profile and, sure enough, “oral” wasn’t listed Ok... my bad for making an incorrect assumption. I’ve never done any “adjusting”, even when things have gone south. Ultimately I asked for and got X hours of time and as long as my companion is acting in good faith then I consider it a lesson learned for both of us. (The question of not attaining an erection has come up several times in the past and I have a really have a hard time penalizing someone for a natural human response... or lack thereof.)