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Grrrr :mad: Set up appt with a Houston new guy for 7:30 early this week... busted ass to get from airport to my hotel... At 7:00 I get: I just noticed I wasn't clear on my previous texts haha. I just got home coming back from helping one of the girls that I used to work with. I'm having to feed my (dogs) and take then out. I'm so sorry. Let's reschedule. Now, of course, I’m scrambling for a plan B... unsuccessfully. I’m completely astonished at how casually some people toss away a half month’s rent.

Anyone have any awareness of Colton Denver —> https://rentmen.eu/ColtonDenver

I make friends easily.

Hopefully this is on-topic. How do you tell when someone is having an anal orgasm? I have an acquaintance who I think has them but I’m uncertain. He never becomes erect (he’s 26) and is completely non-verbal with his face buried in a pillow but responds really enthusiastically when I’m vigorously stimulating his anus. The last time we were together I worked up a sweat and had 4 fingers really deep inside him and his excitement level seemed to increase but never peak. ( That is, I was worn out and ready to quit before he was.) I have been puzzled and so watched him closely and saw that goosebumps (which I believe are an autonomic response) appear and disappear over the span of 30-45 minutes of play. I know that orgasms don’t necessarily have to end in ejaculation but not even an erection ? I know he likes it - he’s grabbed my hand and pulled it back there when embracing - but when I try to ask what feels good, what would he like more of and less of, etc., he simply says that he likes feeling me inside him and doesn’t really want to talk about it. It’s probably more of a communication gap than a physical one. I just want to know how to help him enjoy himself.

I’d never go for Diamond... that site is already pretty expensive and I get lots of messages every day. Now... if there was a way to block my profile from being seen outside the US... maybe. I know you can filter incoming messages based on distance but that just shoves them into the archive with everything else.

Yes... I’ve slipped him extra when I know things have gotten difficult for him. I’m seeing him tomorrow and am going to give him a $80 VISA gift card I got as a promotion for something beyond the usual money. It’s hard to do anything without him knowing about it. He has a younger sibling he partially cares for and is very close to and I’ve gotten things for them he can regift. (I’m foolishly ignoring my own rules about healthy emotional boundaries with him but screw it - I’m old and it makes me happy.)

I assume it’s their first and only wedding of their lives and the most important milestone of their marriage and they can do whatever they want. If I were a close friend and guest I’d be happy for them and celebrate something that was obviously pretty special for them to put that much effort into. I wouldn’t do it at my wedding but I’d hope if they were my close friend and guest that they be just as happy for me and whatever I chose for my first dance.

I dunno... I don't see this too differently than I do my uncle, who once asked me for money. Some people just don't have certain life skills. One of the guys who never paid me back took life pretty casually and was headed to Florida for vacation when he texted me asking for a loan. On the other hand, when you're young the expenses of daily living can be overwhelming. My best SA buddy is going to school full time for accounting (mostly online), working one part-time job, driving an Uber and lives with 2 roommates. He's trying really, really hard to do this without getting any student loans and I can do the math on his budget... it's really difficult. He's never asked me for money but if he did I'd give it to him in a heartbeat. My deadbeat uncle, on the other hand....

I’ve loaned money to three escorts to whom I had gotten close and it turned out badly two times. I still see the third guy, 23, and he was vigilant about reminding me of his debt the next time we met. I’ve loaned money to a few Seekingarrangement guys and it’s gone ok but that’s a different situation.

After lots of hit-and-miss’s I try really hard to make sure I’m compatible with someone before we meet. My profile is very long and detailed, including a couple of “must have”s and I ask everyone to let me know if they are comfortable. If we do meet then I bend over backwards and try very hard to make a meeting go well for both of us. I don’t meet guys for whom “it depends”. I really don’t want to deal with awkward rejection and an aborted meeting.

Does anyone have any awareness of, or even perceptions about, https://rentmen.eu/Nona_Breez/ ? He sent me a pretty unusual email (a sort of poem).

I’m curious. Is Evan still around and is there any contact info for him?

How’d it go?

I messaged with Ben about an appointment and he’s super-nice and professional... I suspect he would be an excellent companion. (Ultimately our interests did not align and we won’t be meeting but may be different for others.)

Has anyone met Alex - https://rentmen.eu/AlexStandall/ Profile up since April ‘18 and 17 RM reviews already.

Alarm system as in some mechanism which audibly and/or visually alerts upon forced or unexpected entry into a structure? And the alarm system isn’t secure from unauthorized electronic tampering, for example to disable remote alerting to some central monitoring center (like ADT)? That seems oxymoronic. I guess that I think of cyber security as relating to the accidental or malicious acquisition of any data about me, including communications to others, on both equipment I own & control as well as infrastructure which I don’t.

10 Tips on How to Identify a Phishing or Spoofing Email Tip 1: Don’t trust the display name A favorite phishing tactic among cybercriminals is to spoof the display name of an email. Return Path analyzed more than 760,000 email threats targeting 40 of the world’s largest brands and found that nearly half of all email threats spoofed the brand in the display name. Here’s how it works: If a fraudster wanted to spoof the hypothetical brand “My Bank,” the email may look something like: Since My Bank doesn’t own the domain “secure.com,” DMARC will not block this email on My Bank’s behalf, even if My Bank has set their DMARC policy for mybank.com to reject messages that fail to authenticate. This fraudulent email, once delivered, appears legitimate because most user inboxes only present the display name. Don’t trust the display name. Check the email address in the header from—if looks suspicious, don’t open the email. Tip 2: Look but don’t click Hover your mouse over any links embedded in the body of the email. If the link address looks weird, don’t click on it. If you want to test the link, open a new window and type in website address directly rather than clicking on the link from unsolicited emails. Tip 3: Check for spelling mistakes Brands are pretty serious about email. Legitimate messages usually do not have major spelling mistakes or poor grammar. Read your emails carefully and report anything that seems suspicious. Tip 4: Analyze the salutation Is the email addressed to a vague “Valued Customer?” If so, watch out—legitimate businesses will often use a personal salutation with your first and last name. Tip 5: Don’t give up personal information Legitimate banks and most other companies will never ask for personal credentials via email. Don’t give them up. Tip 6: Beware of urgent or threatening language in the subject line Invoking a sense of urgency or fear is a common phishing tactic. Beware of subject lines that claim your “account has been suspended” or your account had an “unauthorized login attempt.” Tip 7: Review the signature Lack of details about the signer or how you can contact a company strongly suggests a phish. Legitimate businesses always provide contact details. Tip 8: Don’t click on attachments Including malicious attachments that contain viruses and malware is a common phishing tactic. Malware can damage files on your computer, steal your passwords or spy on you without your knowledge. Don’t open any email attachments you weren’t expecting. Tip 9: Don’t trust the header from email address Fraudsters not only spoof brands in the display name, but also spoof brands in the header from email address. Return Path found that nearly 30% of more than 760,000 email threats spoofed brands somewhere in the header from email address with more than two thirds spoofing the brand in the email domain alone. Tip 10: Don’t believe everything you see Phishers are extremely good at what they do. Just because an email has convincing brand logos, language, and a seemingly valid email address, does not mean that it’s legitimate. Be skeptical when it comes to your email messages—if it looks even remotely suspicious, don’t open it

Absolutely This is what I do: No app can replace good communication hygiene (and opens yet another door). I think about installing apps like a Craigslist hookup. It looks like fun and feels really good at the time but I may regret it a week later.

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This gentleman has been around for quite some time and used to have an escort profile. There has been brief mention of him in the forum but I can’t recall his former screen name. We exchanged notes a couple of times and he was always courteous but I never got an impression that his time was anything beyond an erotic massage.

That FA should be fired. Suppose someone on that plane had a nut allergy. sorry

I ended an 8 month relationship solely because of alcohol abuse. I’ve no problem with alcohol... just being close to alcoholics.

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If you like that then you’ll love this: Washington Post, 10/16/18 'Swipe right to sue’: Now you can file lawsuits the same way you find hookups on Tinder ...the founder of a legal-services app says his product now allows users to sue someone with their smartphones and claim awards from class-action lawsuits the same way they’d select a match on Tinder -- with a quick “swipe right to sue.” Since those new services launched Wednesday, the app, known as DoNotPay, has been downloaded more than 10,000 times, according to its founder, Joshua Browder, a 21-year-old senior at Stanford University who has been labeled the “Robin Hood of the Internet.” How does it work? Once opened, the app tells users they can sue anyone by pressing a button. The app then asks several questions about the nature of the filing, as well as users' name and location, before asking them to fill in the amount they want to sue for. After directing the claim to one of 15 separate legal lanes -- such as an automobile accident or recovering personal property -- the app provides users with the documents necessary for their suit, including a demand letter, county filing documents and even a strategic script to read in court. Users print out the documents and mail them to the relevant courthouse, setting the lawsuit in motion. The app can also analyze a user’s receipts and email, and display all the class-action lawsuit settlements they’re eligible for, Browder said.

It’s not really clear to me who’s who but I received a request to unlock *my* pics from this profile address -> https://rentmen.eu/KarstenRasmus/ He has an interesting profile and I’m intrigued.