My libido has definitely waned.
I attribute it to several factors:
my age
the provider environment, from my perspective, has become much more intense with upselling and misrepresentations along with last-minute cancellations or no-shows, and skyrocketing price points
the pandemic and other transmissibles
my resistance to tattoos and piercings, which seem to be everywhere
travel time to/from appointments
In my case the old "if you don't use it, you lose it" seems to apply.
I'm quite content with my memories and fantasies for the present.
The funds I'm saving also helps. 🙂