Keeping the peace within divergent family factions can be very taxing. Within my family there are some who are anti-white to the nth degree. On occasion I have been chided for being too friendly with "whitey." I feel fortunate that while in my 20's I migrated into New York City for work and residence where I had the good fortune to interact with virtually every race over the years. I came to understand that racist convictions exist everywhere, but not in everyone. I submitted to my family, and some friends of the family, the reality that no-one does it alone. When Jews were being exterminated in Germany, there were German families who risked everything, including their very lives, to hide Jews in their German homes. In America there were Caucasians who risked everything to participate in the underground railroad and later in civil rights movements. And, today, we see large numbers of Caucasians, and other races, marching in the name of George Floyd. As to this thread's title "Tolerating opinions of family members," tolerating is the optimum word.