JDXXX

You guys always have to fuck it up for me, don't you?
 
I was hoping to go over to his place tonight to watch Dancing with the Stars together.
 
Now, at worst, he won't be available, and at best I'll have to share him with all of you.
 
I guess I'll just have to sit here alone and munch on popcorn while you guys have all the fun.
 
And it will be a lot of fun if you hire him.

I highly concur with Rudynate's recommendation. Have been with Tyger on a few occasions, most recently in August, I think, (Our months have escaped me far too soon!) and had another
stellar time after our not having seen each other for a while due to Tyger's travels abroad! He'll give you the "time of your life" and then some.

I will add my voice to the Dane Scott recommendation and yes he looks exactly like his pictures!

Dane - absolutely!

Don't wait too long!
 
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Hands down Dane Scott in Palm Springs. Spectacular.

Easy answer: Dane Scott.
 
http://rentmen.com/DaneScottUSA

If your of an escort who enjoys what he does, and enjoys his time with his clients - it shouldn't matter if the client is overweight or not.
 
A "true and humble" escort doesn't and shouldn't discriminate over size, race, or creed of any kind.

The only thing I require from a client is his desire.
 
There are no other conditions...

I realize what I'm about to say may be perceived by some forum members as sacrilegious, silly, worthy of criticism, and possibly divisive. I'm ok with it, it's just one opinion vented to get it out my system.
 
For me, escorts should refrain from using specific client stories to make their point. I know it probably adds more validity to their advice, but to me, detail-sharing is a breach of trust and, ultimately, damaging to an escorts' personal brand. I'm often criticized for not hiring outside my trusted circle of companions. Well, this thread is precisely why I choose so carefully. I've yet to find any of my trusted companions on this forum actively talking about their clients. Doesn't mean they aren't (!), but at least, I don't yet see my personal story and fantasies used as forum fodder.
 
To my wonderful, thoughtful, beautiful, trustworthy companions: Thank you for holding me tight to your chest...literally and figuratively. Let's now embrace our 300 pound client and his fantasy, and let's all of us lift him up against that wall. May his fantasy soon become a reality. With utmost respect, TR

My dear Juan, as one of those people that may be one and a half to two times your weight. If he had wanted to be hoisted against the wall, he should have provided the fork lift.
 

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In our case, thank heavens we're both tops! As a famous escort once told me: "Two Tops Can Be Hot!" in such a way that my tongue got hard.
 
Meet me at the door dressed only in a towel and all will be well.
 
 

Yes.
 
Every time.
 
It's not whether I am a saint or not or whether a good escort should like everyone. It's not that I need to be "warned", I just need all necessary information.
 
When I say yes attraction has nothing to do with my answer. Yes, you should always share your expectations before meeting and yes, you should always share information about you that might hinder the fulfillment of those expectations.
 
There's tons of wonderfully fun things one can do with a lover who is even morbidly obese and clean, but because of simple physics there are things that are just not possible.
 
I was once hired by a guy who weighed possibly two and a half times my weight. He was really handsome and I thought the session was going well. At some point, after adjusting heights and angles, finally I was able to fuck him. As soon as I was inside him, he jerked at my arms frantically demanding that I lifted him with my dick and fucked him against the wall the way he had seen in a porn movie.
 
This is not an exaggeration. And as much as this case was extreme, it is quite common for people not in touch with their bodies to demand things are -because of the size and condition of their bodies- simply impossible.
 
You are three hundred pounds and you want me to lift you like you were a tiny young man? I am sorry, it sounds as if I am not the man for you. I don't think I can fulfill your expectation.
 
I will not go see someone who I think I might disappoint. If someone wants something that I am not confident I can provide, I will be clear about it and will suggest I am not the right man for the job. I will explain my point and I will offer options, but I will be very happy not to have brought into a situation where the only outcome is failure.
 
Now... let's not talk about me. Let's not talk about those other escorts who will be thrilled about seeing anyone. Let's talk about the other ones...
 
If I am insecure about the way I look, whether it is justified or not, if I feel ashamed that I am fat, for example and I show up at an escort's door just to have that escort close the door on my face because I am fat, or worse, have the escort take my money while he does absolutely nothing for me... that would make me so much unhappier and more insecure.
 
Why not give the escort every chance to reject me beforehand to avoid the much harsher possibility of being rejected in person or being taken for a ride?
 
ALWAYS GIVE THE NECESSARY INFORMATION. Not for your escort. For yourself.
 
You deserve to be treated well. You deserve to be treated with respect, and you deserve to have someone who understands your expectations clearly.

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Here's a related problem with disclosure. I was seeing a hot escort years ago (Justin Banks) https://www.google.com/search?q=justin+banks&biw=1000&bih=459&source=lnms&tbm=isch&sa=X&sqi=2&ved=0CAcQ_AUoAmoVChMI0p3oyo-RyQIVBJeICh1EbgIg&dpr=1.35#imgrc=XX_S9VZGoSB57M%3A
 
who had a habit of telling me how disgusting and unattractive his clients were. I found it unprofessional to say the least. Although he was incredibly hot and a great bottom, this disturbed me. He charged high rates ($300/hr in early 90s), and I thought he should have more respect for men who supported him. Also, I wondered what nasty things he said about me.
 
To their credit, all other escorts I've hired have never done this. When talking about their career in escorting they only speak of positive encounters and the men they service.

Two things concern me about this thread:
 
1. One of the clients went from 300 to 400 to 500 lbs in a matter of a few posts! Take heed: Reading these posts can lead to weight gain unless you are reading this on a threadmill!
 
2. On a serious note, I agree with CarlRichmond. I do pause and pay careful attention when I read companion's comments about their client experiences. Yes, I learn from those experiences and it helps me be a better client, but I also gain insight about the escort himself. I've learned a lot about a couple of escorts today.

You said it, baby. Right On, DTB.
 
DTB is right as I believe in treating all my guys like Kings, and enjoy my clients no matter what size, race, religion or creed.
 
Treat others as YOU would like to be treated. It's the only fair and "classy" thing to do of in "ANY" business. .
 
Own what you do as an escort, and be proud of yourself and your clients who helped build YOU to where you are as an escort today based on the joy and
pleasure you've brought into they're lives.
 
It's a great accomplishment, and honor for YOU as the escort to know you bring happiness and self-esteem to your client no matter of there size, looks, or even race.
 
We all need a great guy in our lives who makes us feel special in one way or another from time-to-time to help boost us up in life as we do live in a cruel, and sometimes "fake" society that's based on looks or how much money you have which isn't good for one's self-worth at times.

I have a great deal of respect for your point of view, Juan, but in this case I respectfully disagree. In your example, where the extremely heavy guy expected you to carry him around, you're right: that's unrealistic. But the problem isn't that he failed to disclose his weight ahead of time, the problem is that he's expecting the impossible. He should be able to figure out that his expectation is unrealistic without you telling him.
 
However, once a client has made a first impression of low self esteem, it probably can't be undone, and several people here seem to agree with me that self confidence is sexy, and conversely, low self esteem is a turn-off. As long as the client isn't asking for activities that are impossible because of their physical condition, I don't think it's worth it to disclose so much that they risk coming off as a person with self confidence issues.
 
I think that your point about the risk of being rejected at the escort's door is an interesting one, too. Maybe I'm higher than I realize on the self-confidence scale, but if that happened to me, I'd be frustrated and somewhat disgusted by the escort's unprofessionalism, but I think I would blame them for their inappropriate judgementalism rather than take it personally. If an escort wants to refuse clients based on their size, age, race, hair color, etc., I'd rather they put that upfront in their ad. One former forum poster, Marc Dylan, was pretty upfront about the fact that he only wanted physically fit clients. Although it always seem to me disappointing, if he felt he was unable to perform with unattractive clients, I applaud him for being upfront about it.

My advice: fake it. If you can manage to pretend that you're self confident, not only will others believe it, you'll start to believe it yourself.
 
There have been studies that have shown that when people smile -- even a fake smile -- they become happier.

If your of an escort who enjoys what he does, and enjoys his time with his clients - it shouldn't matter if the client is overweight or not.
 
A "true and humble" escort doesn't and shouldn't discriminate over size, race, or creed of any kind.

Well, as we can all see from this thread, opinions vary as to whether a client should leave himself open to being perceived as having low self-esteem about body issues when he first contacts an escort. What I think comes through loud and clear on this thread is:


 
The really excellent escorts do not need a heads up from an overweight client unless it impacts what the client's actual physical limitations might be and then perhaps, a general explanation might be in order.
 
Personally, as an overweight client in my senior years, who used to have an awful lot of issues with my own personal self-esteem until my very first escort (AresApollo in NYC) educated me and put me on the path of a much higher self image, I still never fail to be clear in my initial contact with a new escort that I'm "an overweight and older guy!"
 
That said, the best escorts never seem to have any issue with my weight or my age. I quoted JD Daniels because what he said is the absolute truth. Every time I've been with him, whether in the bedroom or out in public, he has always made me feel as if I am the hottest, most sexually desirable guy he's ever met! So far, in my almost 5 years of hiring escorts, I have found that all the best professional escorts do this, which is why I stay completely addicted to this hobby!!!
 
TruHart1

I so strongly disagree with you it hurts, but I am going to let it go after this final comment because we will never agree. To even hint I suggested what you did is such is pure fabrication.
 
I would never expect an escort to be able to perform wild acrobatics with a 500 pound man and if that was a requirement for a successful session with you, then by all means, it would be smart for anyone to disclose.
 
But if you think a 350 pound man should have to disclose his weight to you, or a bald man should have to disclose he has no hair to you, or that a red head needs to tell you he is a ginger, or etc. etc. needs to disclose this to you in hopes of getting a simple hug or kiss from you, you are not half the man or escort I EVER thought you to be and frankly I am just sickened thinking about it.

I'm less tall than you are (just over 6') and I've noticed that all escorts I've hired have always been shorter than me, sometimes by quite a bit. I always forget that I'm a bit taller than the average person in Belgium. It's almost become a desire to find a guy as tall or taller than me

I have recently started sharing my stats with escorts because I am very tall. Although I don't consider 6'4" to be freakishly unusual, many guys have had a surprised look and comment on my height when they open the door. I usually tell them that I will be shorter when I am on my back and we both laugh, but for some guys the height difference is a real issue. In terms of communicating expectations, it seems only fair to explain what you want when hiring. How else is the escort supposed to know what you are looking for?

Of course they would, as they would "rather" know about anything to allow them to interject any prejudices they have without having to suffer any fallout or consequences for truth or bluntness in advertising that might turn potential clients off. It is my 100% belief that any escort that has a performance issue with a client for whatever reason, that burden of disclosure should 100% fall on the escort and not the client. That's right, put it in your ad. No gingers. No fatties. No baldies. No bears. No minorities. No whatever the hell you have a problem with. That's right, own it, wear your "preferences" as you like to call them as a badge of honor, and stop blaming the clients for your performance issues or forcing them to take ultra critical looks at themselves and develop as Mr. Corndog put so eloquently self-confidence issues just to make you feel better about your own prejudices aka "preferences". And you clients, do as Mr. Corndog says, walk in there and meet your escort, with your head held high, and full of self-confidence and hope you picked a winner like JD Daniels that is going to treat you like a king no matter what you look like! You owe THAT to yourself!

My actual experience for 15 years suggests the opposite.
 
The anecdote I already posted above says it all. It's just my perceptions, but what you are talking about here is basically whether you can disclose you are imperfect AND come off as self-confident. And you're right, self confidence is sexy.
 
In one case as I described above I felt like a client with a perfectly hard cock that functioned very well was desperate to cover up his lack of confidence in himself due to his age. In another case I felt like a client with a cock he himself described as nonfunctional (regarding erections) was full of self-confidence and fun and relaxing to be with. These were just my perceptions, but what we're talking about here are perceptions of sexiness. Clarity and confidence are not mutually exclusive things.
 
There's at least one poster on this site I have been hired repeatedly by who manages to combine what would clearly be considered an overweight body with a self-confident "that just means there's more of me for you to love, if I let you" attitude. I find that sexy, too.