@N13 I have not always been very comfortable with my body l. When I was younger I was too skinny. Then I thought I was too hairy. Then I thought I had a small penis because I was comparing myself to porn stars (6.5 inches here). I think we all have our insecurities with our bodies and it takes time to accept ourselves and try not to compare to others ( for me it’s a work in progress) so I think I know where you’re coming from. I would say try not what other people think should be the norm or ideal impact how you feel about yourself; I know it’s hard because I work on doing that every day.
To your question, I admire a hot body with a large cock and sometimes meet with companions because they meet those requirements. However, I can honestly say the guy that broke my heart and who was my only serious relationship had a smaller than average dick (5.5 inches) and he was an awesome top and I still miss him...