I'm 5'10" and 166 and also think I am a bit overweight which is nuts when I think about it. I think we all have our insecurities and I always wish I could be more self-assured. At the end of the day you need to be happy and comfortable with who you are which from personal experience is easier said than done...
Your vpn should use a location outside of the US. I have norton 360 and it recently introduced a VPN component. When I turn it on I select the country I want to use for location and usually pick Germany. Then I can see the reviews with comments
To a guy or woman? Just curious...
Also this other thread is great if you like vpl
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/transparent-clothing-and-vpl-visible-penis-line-appreciation-thread.147490/
I also used condoms for oral after an STD scare and it gave me peace of mind. I bought flavored condoms which helped. I found it just as enjoyable. The companion gave me a WTF look at first but was cool about it and think he enjoyed it once he came in my mouth. And by the way I suck a bjs.
Looking at all the previous post; I guess I’m the exception. Never had a situation with a companion turn into an FB type of relationship and no companion I have met has offered to meet without compensation even the ones I have seen multiple times. I know it’s a business so it is what it is...
Wow, I thought I was familiar with all the hot CF movies but somehow I missed this one: Edwin Teases Brayden - that's pretty hot
https://www.corbinfisher.com/tour/trailers/acs-edwin-teases-brayden.html
Not sure what OP’s preferences are other than pornstar, nyc and 20’s or 30’s but Rafael Alencar is in nyc:
https://rent.men/RAFAELALENCAR/
I have never meet him but he is on my bucket list...
P.S. I don’t think I have seen a lot of pornstars in NYC that are residing there; I think it’s mostly visiting so it’s hard to provide a list. Perhaps the OP can fly them in from California or other parts of the US if that’s an option for him.