Op, you're not alone. My "Perfect Man" hasn't changed in 30 years. I went into hiring escorts looking for that guy, but all the early 20s jocks I contacted were, well, flaky. I ended up hiring a 33yo and a 37yo that first weekend. Wow!!!
While they met my "they're attractive" minimum threshold, I was still nervous. In person, they blew me away. Good looking And experienced? That combo beats 20s hot and self absorbed any day.
I'm still gonna meet Rey tho. Early 20s, hot and into Daddies is someone I can't miss out on meeting, lol.