While kissing is important, the amount of intimacy involved in is much greater than a simple bj or anal. There are a few escorts I hire regularly that I find to do perfectly good work, who just happen not to have the kissing connection with me. I look at it as a bonus (boyfriend experience) vs a necessity (great escort experience), and always let the escort initiate it. Clients pick escorts knowing that we like what we see and immediately start fantasizing a passionate connection, they usually don't have the same luxury- so why push the issue? I don't find great service/ companionship to be hindered by the lack of a hot make out session, but if my hire is interested bring it on!