It's not that I don't believe you. It's just kind of insulting you saying you're helping normalize this closet case to keep his "life in balance". Yeah wouldn't want the family to think their perfect little angel is a dirty faggot.
I'd almost get it if he had a family life like kids or something where he had to think of them. We're in 2019 now. Fucking pathetic but good on you to help him with his little secret life.