I used to perform for parties and full production male revues. I have been out of the business for about 10 years because of my career. You do have to be careful about places that advertise a male revue. Most of them are fake listings.
Some of the real shows are women only, but a few of them will allow men. I did work with Anthony Labrada and Jeff Rocker from https://strippersforyou.com/. It's a different Jeff than mentioned before. They are both straight, but welcomed everyone to the show. I know they used to tour on a regular basis, but I think after Covid they just do some shows here and there.
I really miss performing. We had such a good time. I still am in great shape, but I would have to wear a mask like the WWE wrestlers so I don't get fired. Haha.