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Whether he’s “worth it” really depends on what your body responds to - happy to share how it actually felt for me if that helps.

Funny enough — I had a provider tell me BB usually comes at a higher rate. His reasoning was just “better experience,” but it also felt like something he could leverage to charge more. I remember laughing and going, “okay… but you’re enjoying it more too, right?” Because it never really feels like a one-sided upgrade.

To me deposits themselves aren’t really the issue here. It really comes down to booking risk. As clients, we worry about being scammed or ghosted after sending money. On the other side, providers worry about driving across town, booking hotels, or blocking out time only for the client to disappear. In a way both sides are just trying to shift the risk to the other side. From a client perspective, the more useful question isn’t really “deposit or no deposit,” but who you’re sending it to and why. A new provider with no reviews? Probably no deposit. Someone well reviewed, or a longer booking or travel involved? A small deposit can make sense. For me it’s less about hard rules and more about risk management. Every booking ends up being its own decision.

Curious how other clients approach this over time. Early on, it seems like a lot of people try different providers — exploring profiles, seeing what the experience is like with different personalities and styles. But I’ve also noticed that some clients eventually end up seeing the same providers repeatedly once the chemistry is right. In your experience, which approach actually works better? Does the experience improve once someone already knows your body, preferences, and rhythm — or does it start to feel less exciting compared to meeting someone new? Interested to hear how others here approach it.

I also think it helps to follow clients who’ve consistently taken size — cross-comparison matters. If someone’s actually booked multiple 10–11"+ guys, their benchmark is just more trustworthy. A first-timer calling someone “massive” isn’t the same as someone who regularly hires in that range. And honestly, once you’re past that 10–11 mark, the number stops being the whole story. I’ve had guys who were all technically “over 10” feel completely different in person — some were intense, some were manageable, some just didn’t land the way I expected. That’s fit — rhythm, positioning, and how they use it. That’s what changes everything. That’s why I started keeping detailed hiring notes for myself — not just “big or not,” but how it actually feels and who it works for (and who it doesn’t). If you want, DM me.

I’ve actually met TylerLONG a few times, so I’ll add something beyond “he’s huge.” Yes, the size is real. But what stood out to me wasn’t just that. It’s not jackhammer energy. It’s controlled pressure. Strong rhythm. Repetition. He locks into a pace and stays there. If you’re looking for wild, frantic pornstar theatrics, that’s probably not the lane. If you prefer composed, authority-forward tops who move steady and don’t rush, that’s closer to the mark. Edited by moderator. No personal advertising.

I’ve seen him. If you’re experienced and into a more feral, street-style dynamic, he can hit. I shared notes from my own booking here if helpful: Note

If we’re talking biggest + thickest (as in you feel the weight, not just length) - from my own experience: BigRansom — Big-heavy baseline + natural rhythm. https://rent.men/BigRansom KingRichieRich — Weight-class thick; steady, controlled pressure. https://rent.men/KingRichieRich HUNGFOOTLONG — Long + broad; raw, feral dominance that hits deep. https://rent.men/HUNGFOOTLONG PrimeMeat — Next-door vibe; surprisingly thick and heavy; faster pace. https://rent.men/Primemeat TylerLONG — Long and imposing; strict, controlled; size still solid. https://rent.men/TylerLONG If anyone wants detailed notes beyond size (pacing, energy, fit), happy to share.

+1 on BigRansom. Base girth is real and not everyone’s built for it. No kissing, but he delivers. KingRichieRich is also in the thickest and biggest category, just a different feel. https://rent.men/KingRichieRich If anyone’s comparing the two, I’m happy to share notes.

I’ve written a handful of long-form booking logs now. The pattern is pretty consistent: most disappointment isn’t about safety or photos — it’s about mismatch. Ratings don’t tell you what your body will actually respond to. That part only shows up after. I’m curious how others here think about fit before booking.