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The reason why is that there are two guys on one ad. Eli and his partner.

What is interesting is that the two links included in the post have the same guy's photo for the link; but if you click the first link - it is expired and the photos are of a different guy. The stats of the two guys don't match and one of them has tattoos.

I would also recommend https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/1261/. Chris - is a non-draping masseur, extremely knowledgeable and with very skilled hands, who can deliver the type of massage you describe. If you haven't tried him out yet you should give him a try. He makes his shower available pre/post massage. Suggest the 90 minute session.

Any experiences with this provider?

Over the last several years as I've gotten older, more of the guys who have reached out to me have been 25+ years younger than me (currently 61 and silver/grey haired). The guys may be nice to look at and good for a turn in bed, but that is not much of a basis for developing a relationship since we don't have much in common. If the "Daddy" word is used in the first communication with me I know the guy isn't for me. I acknowledge my mindset is not what other guys may focus in on.

The director of "Nuovo Olimpo" is Ferzan Ozpetek, Turkish Italian, who has directed many other good films: Hamam (Steam: The Turkish Bath); Saturn in Opposition; Le Fate Ignoranti; le dea fortuna; he also directed Le Fate ignoranti (The ignorant angels) as a TV series (Hulu) (not a full filmography). Most have a gay or bisexual theme in them; either in Italian or Turkish - but assuming most of them have been dubbed into English by now, for the subtitle-challenged viewers. Will be viewing "Nuovo Olimpo" this weekend and look forward to his newest work. If you do get a chance to view some of his earlier works, you'll notice he uses certain actors/actresses in multiple movies.

It's been a few years, but there was always M/T and H/E when I had had sessions with him.

https://rentmasseur.com/JhoeColombia His RentMasseur link. No reviews.

Well I finished it this week after putting it down for several months. The ending was a twist but somewhat predictable, and glad I skim read the remaining pages. I enjoyed the character's travels but the writing put me to sleep at certain points. Glad others enjoyed it.

I would concur with @SoSoSoHo on recommending Chris aka SportsMassageNYC

The Aldi shop nearest to me was built in the last year or so. The only things I've purchased are fruit (berries) and some vegetables, and their brioche hamburger buns. Maybe I've been lucky when in the store or more discerning when selecting, but the produce is rather nice and cheaper than the other NJ supermarkets. Haven't touched their meat or frozen items.

Had enjoyed the book immensely - but the movie came across way watered down. @dutchal hit many of my points. Was entertaining but not the best it could have been.

Ask him - all he can say is no - right?

You seem to have come to the same conclusion that several other members have stated, if he won’t change his current approach after discussing with him, accept what he’s providing as service or move onto someone who will provide you the service you seek.

Well the finale aired this past Sunday. Sort of played out as I expected - the children got what they all deserved. Tom's twist was interesting and Greg's ability to keep going was interesting. They could have edited the episode and made it into the normal 60 minute length.

Had seriously considered buying a second home to retire to in NM but life circumstances changed. Corrales was my main focus since you could be close to ABQ for nightlife/restaurants, but was a quiet area and you had some distance from your neighbors. Santa Fe was only about an hour up the interstate and it was fairly easy to go N/S/E/W given ABQ being at the junction of the two major interstate highways. Crime yes has been an issue for the city. There used to be (may still be there) a gay retirement property outside of Santa Fe. Toured it many years ago but it wasn't for me given the close proximity to other houses and it truly was out in the woods. I do still enjoy taking vacation time in New Mexico.

The person with the Red feather helmet/hat sitting in front of Harry is actually Princess Anne.

Given he only had the Masseurfinder ad at that time - it wasn't an option.

https://rentmasseur.com/NJHANDS Brian has a rentmasseur ad as well. Had a couple of sessions with him pre-Covid, at that time he didn’t advertise on rentmasseur. The sessions were all therapeutic and draped. Nice guy, skilled but pricey for the service provided.

Had a session with Oliver last week. Nice guy, strong hands and it was a deep massage. Started with stretching thru the towel, progressed to the deep tissue massage. All therapeutic, nothing sensual. Nice facility.

Have experienced the massage with one hand and checking the phone with the other but not recently. Actually taking a call during a session was the one that was the worst. A guy who I had several sessions with before (Battery Park City NYC) back in the mid 2000's. He was talented and was trained gave a good massage and stretching session and typically provided a nice ending. On the last visit - the session started as normal, about 10 to 15 minutes into the session his phone started ringing he ignored it and it would ring again (repeat), he apologized and took the call. Conversation ensued and then some strong language back and forth on the phone and said he had to go give something to a friend in the lobby (from what I overhead sounded sketchy) about 10 minutes wasted here taking the call and his redressing. He left and about what seemed 20 minutes or so he returns. During the interim I was ready to just get dressed and leave. He came back and then continued with the session. Session finished and paid, even left a tip (albeit half of what I'd normally leave). Departed and in the cab ride back to my apt my phone starts ringing and he's calling me to say I didn't tip him enough, and that I need to come back and give him more money. Things went back and forth about the payment and I told him he wasn't going to get any more money and I just ended the call. He started calling again, went to voice mail etc, then the text messages continued his tirade, so to end this circus I just blocked him. I think he left the massage business not too long thereafter.

Just watched/rented "In From the Side" on Prime Video, a British gay rugby team film. "Following a drunken encounter, two equally attached men from a cash strapped and divided gay rugby club unwittingly sleepwalk into an adulterous affair but must conceal their growing feelings or risk destroying the club they love." I'd recommend seeing it. Believable mix of characters/personalities https://www.imdb.com/title/tt7947604/

Massage by Jeff - massage/bodywork in Washington, DC - masseurfinder WWW.MASSEURFINDER.COM I've used Jeff several times when I travelled to DC for work. Nice friendly guy - great space and if memory is correct you can shower there too. Good skills and left relaxed and happy.

Have not used it but this is another London based site for masseurs - https://www.massagemeinlondon.co.uk/!/men

Have this book and its a slow read for me which is unusual. I'll finish it; doubtful if the sequel will hold any interest but maybe the twist that @keroscenefire has eluded to may change my mind. Glad others have enjoyed it.